All I know is that my parents help me eat and use. If I don't feel the feeling of care and love, I think it's my parents' responsibility and won't cause gratitude. Third, whether the concept of gratitude has been inspired. Parents do things for their children. When many children tell their parents that "you have worked hard", parents usually say "you can read the book well", which obliterates their spontaneous gratitude. Fourth, the harm of home and the environment of the times.
Many times, the child is not grateful because his parents have no rules for him in their daily life and have not asked him to be grateful for his parents' investment. So, what should parents do? First of all, parents should set an example for their children. There was once a story about a couple who despised their elderly parents. They made a laundry list, put their parents in the laundry list in the middle of the night, picked them up in the deep forest and left them behind. Unexpectedly, their son quietly followed them and quietly picked up the laundry list.
After the couple found out, they asked the children why they did this. The child plausibly said: "Leave it to everyone in the process of aging!" As can be seen from this story, there are endless examples around us. This situation will undoubtedly have an impact on the construction of children's happy heart. Only parents lead by example, lead by example, and do harm to their children in concept, psychological state and means according to what they have seen and heard, which is also the emotional basis and main guarantee of gratitude. Secondly, teach children to say "thank you". Thank you is a simple and earth-shattering word. It is our most beautiful language.
Sometimes, a "thank you" is endless pride and gratitude. Parents bring you delicious food, don't forget to say thank you; Don't forget to say thank you when the teacher explains the topic to you and delays the rest time; When your classmates lend you a helping hand, don't forget to say thank you; When the taxi driver walks you to the door, don't forget to say thank you ... When the child learns to express his gratitude to everyone around him from the heart, the gratitude mentality has already penetrated into his heart.
Third, seize the opportunity to carry out inspirational education for children. Today's children, from the age of 20 to their birthdays, are inspired by their parents. Such personal behavior not only encourages children's vanity, but also improves their self-centered concept. But also consumed material resources and funds. In fact, the child's birthday is the mother's "Good Friday", "pregnancy in October, one delivery", and the mother has suffered in this link.
Therefore, parents should seize the breakthrough of their children's birthdays and carry out inspirational education for their children. You can also make use of traditional festivals such as Tomb-Sweeping Day, Father's Day and National Day to give inspirational education to children, so that children can care about their organizations or groups and even social development from caring about independent people. Finally, when children show some love, as parents, you need to accept it calmly and attach great importance to and cherish their expression of love.
To express sincere thanks, you'd better tell him clearly that you like him and need him very much. Such a natural environment is likely to cultivate a sense of gratitude and responsibility. Gratitude is a traditional virtue, wisdom and working ability.