My wife is not motivated enough. It takes three minutes to do anything, such as losing weight. Before she could do anything, she bought all kinds of fitness AIDS online and danced in front of the video. After using them twice, she hung them aside. I don't buy fitness things. I can do sit-ups and push-ups as long as there is flat ground.
My son also has a three-minute fever. Anyone who clamors to buy this and that in advance will soon forget his original intention when he buys it back. There is no continuity in doing things, and no matter how good other children are, they can't stimulate him.
There's nothing wrong with following your mother.
I am a person who loves learning. When I can't read books when I have little time, I search for what I want to learn through new media. My positions in Tik Tok, Zhihu and Watermelon. It's all about learning. My wife will only brush short videos for entertainment or watch live broadcasts. The child is talking to her and asking to play with her. She always pushes it off, and then says she's tired today and doesn't want to move. I don't want to move, but brush the video with my mobile phone. Not all of them are nutritious. I said that you will get more and more tired, because every video you brush has nothing to do with the past. In the face of too many fragmented information shocks, your brain can't relax, but she still goes her own way. She is in her thirties and has no self-control. I am really speechless.
Some people are naturally lazy, regardless of gender. I used to think that the online girls' dormitory was a mess. Later, I found out from my wife that most of this woman just wanted to keep herself clean. As for the surrounding environment, hehe.
Imagine that you have just finished cleaning the living room, and there is always another person who is at sixes and sevens, and still doesn't clean it ... What's even more frightening is that the children's behavior, like others, makes the home more messy.
I also instilled in my son that you can be stupid, but you must not be lazy. You can be slow, but you must not learn anything. Actually, I'm telling my wife.
But then I concluded that you can never wake a person who is pretending to sleep. Your Excellence can only affect those who want to be excellent, but not those who don't want to be excellent.
After finding such an object, I can only admit it.
One more thing, health problems. Divided into physical health and mental health.
The wife's laziness is described above, and the reasons are analyzed later. The conclusion is that people are short of qi and blood, lazy people are usually not smart, and the blood supply to the brain is insufficient, which has a great impact on the body.
Deficiency of qi and blood can be seen everywhere in life, such as panting when climbing stairs, being tired every day, doing everything for three minutes without continuity, always having skin problems or poor expression management.
Sometimes I think that her laziness is probably due to lack of qi and blood. Because of lack of qi and blood, she can't lift her spirits and move her legs. She just wants to lie flat every day.
In addition, I have limited energy, little sleep and lack of concentration in my work. One hammer in the east and one hammer in the west, for an instant, his mind is unrealistic, and he is simply a dreamer.
My wife is too paranoid and sensitive. You usually say a word casually, and she silently labels you with all kinds of unwarranted labels.
Later, I concluded that her condition may be related to insufficient blood supply to the brain, and she has a history of intracranial hypertension.
The increase of intracranial pressure has genetic factors, but the frequency is not high. After eight years of marriage, she has appeared three times. As for how many times before we got married, I don't know.
In short, people with brain diseases are more likely to inherit, and my son is far behind his peers. Other children can finish the problem in half an hour, but he takes four or five hours, which may not be all right. Don't talk about methods He is really stupid, although I hate to admit it. After all, he is his own son. However, I have to face the reality.
The parents of the children in the neighborhood ignore their children, and the children are naturally sensible, polite and study well. The child's father often beats him, and the child's mother dares not intervene, but they are of high quality, love life, can raise flowers and plants, and have culture, which are inherent in their temperament.
I will spend more time and energy on children to accompany, educate and care for them. Even so, I may not be able to catch up with my neighbor's children's basement. This is the most desperate.
And the root of everything is the original choice.
I used to choose a good face, but now I hit my face because I want to marry a virtuous man.
The influence of women on children and families is so powerful that I didn't realize it at that time!
You ask me if I regret it? I do regret it, but I have no choice. I'm not getting a divorce. Instead, I have to find a way to find the possibility of breaking the game. Although the probability is really small, I won't do it. What more meaningful things can we do in the remaining decades?