(1) Family environment: If a child's parents have one parent, they often say violent words such as "killing you" when educating their children at home, and the children will naturally learn. When other people's behavior is not as good as their own wishes, they will casually talk about such things.
(2) School environment: Children go to school and spend more time outside than at home. If they meet adults or classmates who swear, they will also be infected. Children don't know whether it's good or bad, but they think it's fun. They learn by simple mechanical imitation.
(3) External network: Now the mobile phone network information is very developed. If you are not careful, the child will pick up the parents' mobile phone and have a look. Network information is mixed, and children's minds are immature. Parents are anxious when they see their children swearing. After all, this is not a civilized behavior, which will affect your communication with others and have a bad influence on your image.
2. How to educate children not to swear?
(1) Reasoning: First of all, tell the children that it is impolite and uneducated to say such things. We should be beautiful not only in appearance, but also in heart. Good children say what everyone likes to hear, and everyone hates swearing and ugly words. Let the children have this awareness, understand the truth, and know that it is uncivilized to say so, and they will converge. Every time I blurt it out, the adults will remind me several times, and the children will gradually fade away.
(2) Parents should set an example: if family members have a tendency to use violent language, they should change it for the sake of their children. Parents are their children's first teachers, so they should pay attention to their civilized manners and set a good example for their children.
Words and deeds are more important than anything else. Children's words and deeds are influenced by their families, and the influence of the original ecological family plays a vital role in children's growth.
(3) Provide a good external environment: provide children with a good external environment as much as possible and avoid contact with electronic products such as mobile phones. Information online learning should be within the understanding of parents. Don't give your child a mobile phone casually, so that the child can watch it indiscriminately. Give children a better language environment, reduce dependence on mobile phones, spend more time with children, read more books, enrich children's vocabulary, listen to beautiful language and cultivate aesthetic feeling.
(4) downplay cold treatment: As soon as parents hear their children swearing, they are anxious to get angry and correct it. However, some children seem to be joking with you. The more you don't let them talk, the more they talk. Seeing your panic, they still feel funny and seek attention. If children have this kind of reaction, the more effective way for parents is to pretend that they can't hear, "pretend to be deaf" and downplay the cold treatment. When children see that their parents have no emotional changes and can't attract attention, language will gradually become boring.