1, respect children. Children aged seven or eight are in a rebellious period, so they need to respect their ideas and practices, try not to magnify their weaknesses, and at the same time, don't compare their shortcomings with the strengths of other children. In the usual contact process, we should try our best to find their advantages, encourage them more and reduce the resistance to their parents.

2. Stabilize your mood. Try not to educate children with negative emotions. This is an irrational way, which may cause children to resist more and more. So when they are upset or not calm, don't educate children to communicate with them after they are calm.

3. empathy. Parents need to put themselves in their children's shoes in their daily lives, and try not to impose their own ideas on their children, so as not to have a serious impact on their children's psychology and make the rebellious symptoms more serious.