Educate children, of course, we must insist on praise, but don't consciously let children hear both positive affirmation and negative criticism. This paper will discuss how to educate children from the perspective of correctly treating criticism.

Listen carefully

No matter how sharp and unpleasant the criticism is, let the children listen carefully. Because only by listening carefully can you find some truth in it, and finally you can accept it with an open mind.

quiet

Dealing with it calmly does not mean keeping silent about criticism. Parents should educate their children to accept the reasonable components of criticism with an open mind, and even list the improvement methods or measures.

Allow interpretation

When criticism does not conform to the facts, children should also be allowed to explain, because it is not only useless, but also may lead to various disadvantages for children to feel wronged by falsely accepting criticism.

Civilized expression

The "cold handling" skills that children are required to master include: don't talk back to critics, don't "fight back in self-defense", don't exaggerate, and so on. On the contrary, we should calmly analyze as many reasonable ingredients as possible on the basis of listening carefully.

Adapt to criticism

Children who can adapt to criticism in childhood can often adapt to society better when they grow up, including having a peaceful mind to correctly treat criticism and even criticism from others, and having a strong ability to bear setbacks.