1. According to the situation of children, parents nowadays usually divide their children into two categories: good children and bad children. It's not a big problem for a good boy, but always care. This concern is not to secretly read other people's diaries or "torture", but to communicate with children every day. Maybe some children are used to ordinary life, but they are not used to "communication" and just take their time. At the same time, remember that communication with children can't be like. With the flavor of chatting, the language should not be too direct. Only in this way can we understand the child's heart and become his friends. For the bad boy in people's eyes, we must first analyze why he becomes "bad". His bad habits may be spoiled by his parents, or he may lack his parents' company, or he may be brought down by a "bad" child. The last reason is his parents, so when you have a bad boy in everyone's heart, you can't let it go. Beat him, scold him, find the original reason from yourself, and then make progress with your child accordingly. In fact, no matter a bad boy or a good boy, they all need their parents' company and friends.
Second, after understanding that children have solved the initial problems, we should think about the growth and cultivation of children. You can't force them to study. Although this is China, people regard scores as everything, but parents should encourage them. Children should study, you can't scold them or even beat them, but analyze their grades and whether they didn't do well in the exam. If they don't do well in the exam, they should be on the test paper. Admonish, but don't say too much, or the child won't get bored. If he doesn't study well, he should analyze his studies this semester, not investigate or criticize. Let him know the shortcomings of his study habits and methods this semester and supervise the improvement. Of course, supervision should also talk about methods. There is another kind of children who don't want to learn. You should arouse his interest in knowledge and arouse his thirst for knowledge. For example, read more interesting books with him and let him see the importance of knowledge in his life. Don't ask too much for this kind of child who is just beginning to learn, but give him more encouragement, so as to give him hope.
PS: Too many, because the range of children in 2 1 century is too wide to say, but these are two basic points. You can talk to me when you are free. QQ53264 1424