1. Love and respect: Establishing the relationship between love and respect is the foundation of normal education. Give children enough care and support, and respect their personalities and needs. Cultivate the warmth and trust between parents and children.
2. Gentle and fair: Guide children in a gentle and fair way. Avoid excessive punishment or severe criticism, but adopt patient, respectful and effective communication methods to deal with problems and correct mistakes.
3. Set boundaries: Establish clear rules and boundaries to let children know what is acceptable behavior and what is not allowed. At the same time, explain the reasons behind these rules and establish a reasonable consequence and reward mechanism.
4. Encourage autonomy and sense of responsibility: cultivate children's autonomy and sense of responsibility, and let them assume appropriate responsibilities and obligations. Give them appropriate decision-making freedom and let them be responsible for the consequences of their actions and choices.
5. Stimulate interest and creativity: Encourage children to develop their interests and talents and give them opportunities to explore and practice. Stimulate their creativity and thinking, and cultivate their problem-solving ability and imagination.
6. Reasonable expectations and goals: Set reasonable expectations and goals suitable for children's age and ability, and encourage children to pursue progress rather than perfection. Give them appropriate support and encouragement to help them realize their potential.
7. Positive communication and interaction: Maintain positive communication and interaction with children and listen to their voices and ideas. Give them opportunities to express themselves, establish good communication channels with them and understand their feelings and concerns.
8. Give attention and time: Give your child enough attention and time as much as possible. Participate in their life, study and interest, express their care and love, and establish close parent-child relationship.
9. Continuous learning and personal growth: As parents, actively participate in continuous learning and master the knowledge about children's psychological development and education. By understanding the latest research and methods, I will constantly improve my educational skills and knowledge.
It is very important to adapt to children's characteristics and needs according to their age and personality. Every child is unique. Normal education needs to pay attention to and respect the individual differences of each child, and provide active and healthy guidance and education according to their needs.