Some parents prefer children with the same personality as themselves, so they will ignore another child and be eccentric. Bian Xiao had seen this in real life, but Bian Xiao wondered why his parents thought so. It is absolutely impossible for parents to do this. If there is no way to correct it, it will affect the relationship between the two children and their self-confidence. Parents must make a bowl of even water. Although this is a difficult thing, children can do it as long as they love them.
Second, be sure to make a bowl of water level.
For a family with two children, it must be a very difficult thing to deal with the contradiction between children. Parents should not think that one child must be right and the other child must be wrong. If they educate their children with this idea, even a bowl of water is flat. We must know the cause and effect of this matter. Only in this way can we solve the contradiction. After any problems, parents should not point to favoring a child. Because of any feelings of parents, children will lose some confidence in their parents after seeing such unfair treatment from their parents.
In daily life, being a parent is a relatively happy thing, but there are also some difficult things. In the process of getting along with children, parents must control their temper and deal with problems reasonably. The most important thing is that children can grow up healthily and happily. When they were young, they were easy to fight. They have different ideas. If parents don't handle it properly, the contradiction between children will become more and more serious.