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Reflections on the Open Class of Family Education "Cultivating Virtuous Talents and Cultivating People by Home and School" 1
From my parents' initial enlightenment education to educating my daughter now, my life experience tells me that family education is as important to children as school education, and even determines their development direction and affects their life. Now I will talk about my experience on the issue of family education.
Adults are the target. Learning to be a man is the foundation of children, and children will benefit for life. Educate children to have a healthy psychology and a sound personality, and never let them become knowledgeable, eccentric, indifferent to their parents and indifferent to others and society. We should treat children as independent people, fully respect and understand them, and reason with them no matter how big their mistakes are. I have always adhered to this educational principle for children, so that they can get all-round development in morality, intelligence, physique, beauty and labor under the education of school, society and family, and at least become qualified citizens who are beneficial to society and adapt to modern society.
Parents are mirrors. "Genius" can't be created, but as long as parents seize the opportunity to discover, cultivate and develop their children's talents and use their own efforts to follow their own path of life, their children may succeed. Parents are not only natural teachers, but also guardians, partners, friends and role models. Children's words and deeds reflect their parents' ideology. It is not easy to be a parent, and it is even harder to be a good parent. That's true. How to be a good parent, I think, first of all, we should strive to "learn to care". Parents should set an example, care about the society, the country, others, friends and colleagues. Make them respect the old and love the young, be humble and help each other, be tolerant and generous, and be kind to others. Secondly, we should strengthen our self-cultivation. Parents should adhere to moral education, abide by the law, and consciously demonstrate to their children practical activities to improve moral quality in line with socialist moral principles and norms. Thirdly, we should create a harmonious environment. The educational environment is a thermometer for children's growth. To build a harmonious family and society, the subtle influence of family life atmosphere can not be ignored, and the moral spirit of family elders can not be underestimated. If children live with proper praise and encouragement, they will learn self-esteem and self-confidence. Living in humiliation, he will learn to feel inferior; Living in equality, he will learn justice; Living in quarrels, complaints, preferences and lack of warmth, he will learn to argue, blame, envy and indifference. This reality is "teaching without words". Not alarmist.
Children are teachers. Parents should be good at learning their children's strengths. Children have many "lovely shortcomings" that adults should learn from. Such as exuberant vitality and good learning attitude; Not conservative, good at accepting new things; Less sophisticated, sincere and straightforward to people and things; Parents should learn from new technologies, new toys and other unknown knowledge and master the ability to play with them as soon as possible. This advantage of children should be fully affirmed, encouraged and praised by parents, and should not be ignored, accused, suppressed or even stifled.
Respect for teachers is the key. Teachers are the main body of the trinity system education of school, society and family, the engineers of human soul, the founders of children's happiness, the comforters and healers of the soul. For me, I have a deep understanding. My child is a single-parent family, and the feelings of respecting teachers and respecting morality are relatively weak, and the academic foundation is not stable enough. However, his teacher has injected a lot of sincere love and tried his best to strengthen school education with a strong sense of responsibility and dedication, so that my children can develop in a more all-round way in morality, intelligence and physical education, and make up for the shortage of our family education. Such a teacher is highly respected by me, my children and society.
In the future, I am determined to actively cooperate with the school to educate my children so that they can become useful talents who can adapt to modern society. The above experience is just my opinion.
The second experience of the open class of family education "Home-school co-education of Lide Shu Ren"
Family education is an important part of the whole education system. We often say, "Family is a school where children are always attached to and never stop classes, and parents are the first teachers who never leave their posts." It is through family education that parents subtly pass on their lofty moral character, profound knowledge and rich life experience to the next generation, and will accompany their children through the whole life journey.
(A) The first is to create a good family environment.
Family harmony is very important for children's growth. Love between family members will help children learn tolerance, understanding, love, love others and love themselves. Without the care of family, children will become more and more indifferent and selfish. I have seen many cases, such as children's depravity, numbness and so on, all because the family lacks love. Imagine a child who doesn't even love his parents and family, will he still care about strangers? Therefore, we must create a warm and harmonious family life for our children and let them live a happy and worry-free life.
(2) Let children learn their own things as soon as possible, do it yourself, and cultivate their labor habits.
When Momo just learned to sit, we had put her on a stool to have dinner with her family. Although she couldn't eat by herself at that time, we insisted that she should see how adults eat, so Momo slowly learned to eat by herself and learned to eat with chopsticks very early. As long as he can do things at home, he insists on doing them himself, such as sweeping the floor, washing vegetables, taking chopsticks, moving stools and so on. Many parents think that what children can do at such a young age is getting busier and busier. In fact, it is certain that he can't do well, but as long as he participates, if you always stop him from working, he will feel that his mother doesn't need me, and over time he will no longer be willing to do it. Moreover, the cultivation of work habits will make him cherish the fruits of other people's labor more, such as not littering toys, littering and so on.
(3) Encourage and praise children.
The child's self-esteem is also very strong, and sometimes an insult can make him feel bad for a long time. On the contrary, encouraging him more will make children full of vitality. For example, children help parents clean the table, and parents will praise their children and say, You are great! How diligent! In this way, the child will be very happy and may help mop the floor.
(d) Find some good children as role models for children.
Children are very competitive. When other children do what they want to do, they often do what they want to do. Therefore, when educating children, try to find some diligent and sensible children to be role models. For example, children often stay in bed, and parents can say: I will get up and recite poems before dawn tomorrow. I'm so good that no one can catch up with him. In this way, the children will be inspired and refreshed, and they will compete with Xiao Ming to see who gets up early.
(5) Create a learning environment for children and cultivate their study habits.
For a while, my family watched too much TV, but Momo watched too much TV. Then I thought I couldn't do this anymore. So now everyone in the family has learned to read, even if they don't read, so Momo has learned to read. Although the time will not be long, the habit is gradually formed, and it will be better to accumulate bit by bit. As the saying goes, it is better to go to Wan Li Road than to study in thousands of books, so I will take my children out for a walk whenever I have time. Learning knowledge in nature is more acceptable to my children. Although education experts don't recommend children to learn ancient poems of Tang poetry at such a young age, I think reading these poems can cultivate children's aesthetic feeling and sense of rhythm, although children still don't understand them. As for children's songs and music, it is certainly beneficial to watch and listen more. The key is that Mo Mo likes them very much. I think it is most important to cultivate interest.
Reflections on the open class of family education of "moral education with family and school" 3
I am a parent of a senior high school student. Like most parents, I expect my children to get into an ideal university and get ahead.
The experience of writing this tutor is that we hope to learn from each other and let us better cultivate and educate our children. Now, share my feelings with you.
First, let children feel the love of their parents.
I read in many newspapers and magazines that many parents love their children very much, and think that their love for their children is taken for granted, without gratitude or return. As long as children learn knowledge well, nothing else matters. Therefore, there are often news reports that a child ran away from home because of a little quarrel with his parents, which made his parents very anxious, looking around and even calling the police, while the child was playing games in the Internet cafe.
This is really sad, but in the final analysis, it is still caused by children's gratitude to their parents and their lack of love for their parents. Therefore, I attach great importance to this. I have taught and trained my children in this field since I was a child. When I was very young, my children would sweep the floor and cook for my parents before I got off work.
Now as long as I am at home at noon, he will cook for us on weekends. Parents celebrate their birthdays, and children should do housework to repay their parents. This is the default rule in our family. Therefore, through labor, we can cultivate children's sense of gratitude and have a grateful heart, so that children can feel the love of their parents.
Second, let children learn to be independent and learn life skills.
Today's children are like flowers in a greenhouse, growing up under the care of their elders and relatives, which leads many children to develop the bad habit of reaching for clothes and opening their mouths to get food, losing their ability to live, and more and more "neets" appear. In my opinion, children must learn to live independently, because when they grow up, they will live alone, and it is impossible to live with their parents all their lives. So I have been cultivating children's life skills, from the most basic washing clothes, making quilts to cooking. During this period, I found that as long as you are willing to teach him, he will be very interested in learning.
Now, I have an agreement with my child, that is, in the summer vacation after the college entrance examination, he will cook for us to cultivate his living ability and family responsibility.
Third, democracy and equality, and listen carefully to children's voices.
Many newspapers often see a series of problems caused by the lack of communication between parents and children, some of which are even quite serious. Adolescents who enter adolescence will have "rebellious psychology" to some extent. As a parent of a high school student, I have a deep understanding of this. As the child grows taller and taller, he has less and less communication with you, and now he is so nervous about learning. His children go out early and come back late every day, and go back to their rooms after supper.
So, we chose to sit together after dinner and talk to each other like friends. At this time, we will tell our children our situation and share it with them. Because communication is mutually beneficial, it can only be successful through mutual sharing. As the other party, children will be happy to tell us their worries, which will not only let us know the children in time, but also let them understand their parents' sufferings.
Fourth, study with children.
What parents do will deeply affect their children. For example, I like watching TV such as War and Detective. Under my influence, children especially like it. My mother and son often sit on the sofa and watch such movies together in our spare time. The most important role of parents is subtle. The "Three Major Movements in Meng Mu" is similar to this truth, but the focus has turned to the surrounding environment.
Many parents don't want their children to play games and watch TV. Sometimes parents ask their children to do their homework after school, but they stay by the TV. This is not correct. I began to implement the measure that children do homework without watching TV from junior high school. The father of the child hardly watches TV except for the daily news. He reads newspapers or goes for a walk in the park, which creates a quiet learning environment for his children.
Fifth, actively cooperate with teachers' teaching activities.
The teachers in the school are very responsible, especially the current high school class teacher. They always try their best to give parents timely feedback on their children's performance at school, and communicate with parents through contact cards, home visits and parent-teacher conferences. Help children and guide them into the normal track. I often call the class teacher regularly to learn about the children's recent situation, so as to educate the children in time.
Sixth, appropriate encouragement. Increase children's self-confidence
The exam is the most familiar to children and parents, so when a child fails the exam, I will help him analyze it according to his recent performance. For example, when doing homework, I often go in and out, and the number of times of going in and out increases, so I can judge that my child's recent thoughts are not completely focused on learning and there are too many distractions, so I will tell him to calm down and study hard to reduce these distractions in the next time.
For the children who have entered the third year of high school, I will say "Come on" to him every day when I go out, or extend my fist to encourage him and encourage him to work hard!
Reflections on the open class of family education of "moral education, family education and school education" 4
Everything is difficult at the beginning, and education itself is a norm of moral behavior. The education problem of students is not only the school's, but also the family's. Family is the first teacher of children, and also the teacher of family education. It is through family education that parents impart good moral character, rich knowledge and experience to their children. For the future of the children. Lay a good foundation for the road of life. In my opinion, the key to doing a good job in family education should be to "prescribe the right medicine" according to the characteristics of children.
Children are like flowers in spring, innocent, lively and lovely, and have poor ability to distinguish right from wrong. At the same time, they are curious, receptive and imitative. Therefore, parents should never use simple and rude methods when educating their children. We should be good at guiding, try our best to stimulate their interest and change passive learning into active learning. They should mainly do the following work:
First, cultivate children's good study habits.
Ye Shengtao said: "Education is the formation of habits." "All good attitudes and good methods should become habits. Only when proficiency becomes a habit can we express a good attitude at any time and place, and apply good methods at any time and place, as if by instinct, we can never use them all our lives. " Children's concentration time is short, so they must improve their learning efficiency in peacetime. For example, when writing homework, you should finish the homework assigned by the teacher within the specified time, and you can't play while doing it; Check your homework and be responsible for yourself. Parents must not be teachers. Parents must pay attention to the analysis of the reasons for the wrong questions, not just staring at the scores. This makes children feel that learning is their own business, and good study habits can get twice the result with half the effort.
Second, pay attention to the ways and means of communicating with children.
As parents, we should put down our airs, make friends with children, regard children as independent subjects, communicate with children as low as possible, use less imperative tone and use more negotiating language. Use "we" more than "you should", even if it is criticism, let your child feel your love for him. Because children's hearts are very fragile, if parents often give their children classes, they will inevitably have a sense of fear and disgust. If they dare not approach you, they will often have rebellious psychology. Not only do they not like what you say, but they are afraid to go to school.
Third, parents should pay attention to their words and deeds.
As parents, we should pay special attention to our image. Parents should behave in a civilized way in front of our children. Because parents are role models for children, parents' words and deeds have a subtle influence on children and have a far-reaching impact on their growth. Of course, we must have great endurance and be patient with children. Don't use your child as a vent bucket when you encounter troubles at work. As parents, you can't lose your temper. You can only take pains to persuade education. At most, you can only euphemistically say "I'm really angry if you do this again", and then patiently guide and persuade.
Fourth, stimulate children's interest in learning.
As parents, we should try our best to guide and stimulate children's interest in learning. As we all know, children are active and playful by nature, but as long as they are interested in something, they will really study hard, do it seriously and do it consciously. They don't want to do things they are not interested in, and it is impossible to drive ducks to the shelves for their children. Only by being good at guiding children and stimulating their interest in learning can children be happy and actively involved in learning. Usually, you can make use of your knowledge and imagination to make up some interesting stories or games, so that children can learn while playing, and truly "enjoy learning".
In short, for children's family education, we should learn to communicate with them attentively, help them develop good study habits, stimulate their interest in learning, and let them study happily and grow up healthily.
Experience from the perspective of "open class of family education" 5
Children are innocent and pure, and brain development is not only influenced by basic heredity, but also has a lot to do with life experiences in early childhood. If parents don't let their children realize that it takes great efforts to make contributions, and children encounter many difficulties in the process of studying hard, children will think that they can't do what their parents say, and they will feel depressed and sad, which will seriously affect their confidence in making progress and seeking knowledge. Therefore, parents should help their children to establish correct values! Let's share some ways to establish children's correct values from our own family education experience!
1. Create adversity and sharpen children's perseverance.
Don't spoil children, it can create some setbacks and test their perseverance.
2. Let children start by overcoming small difficulties.
We should be strict with our children, let them overcome difficulties and gradually improve, and we must persist in achieving results.
3. Play a role model and stimulate self-exercise.
According to the characteristics of children, parents can tell stories, watch movies, go to the Martyrs Memorial Hall and read books. Let children learn typical characters, inspire self-education and cultivate perseverance.
4. The combination of love and strictness
Correct love for children is the basis of cultivating children's good character. If parents want to love their children properly, they must unify love and strictness. Parents are strict with their children in behavior quality, and children will certainly suffer, but in the long run, it will help cultivate their good character. Fear of children suffering, too accommodating to children, may lead to the Japanese, their wayward and dependent personality characteristics, will not suffer in later life. In fact, whether children will be happy in the future is more influenced by their personality.
5. Help children to set up lofty dreams.
Dreams are the core of personality. Dream is a conscious pursuit that is gradually formed in children's minds through the inspiration and guidance of parents, teachers and society. Parents can't set goals, set dreams and impose them on their children. The child is naive. They often want to be a writer when they grow up, because they read an article that deeply touched them. They want to be a scientist because they visited a natural museum. They may decide to be teachers when they grow up, because they met an amiable and lovely teacher. Don't easily deny these ideas of children, but encourage them to be enterprising and ambitious. With the growth of age, according to the emergence of different advantages of different children, we will gradually guide them to develop in the right direction.
6. Pay attention to everyday things.
Drop water to see the sun. It is not enough to talk about the director of the avenue to cultivate children's sound personality. It is important to start from daily life.
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