Kindergarten education is an important part of basic education and the basic stage of school education and lifelong education in China. As an integral part and basic part of children's overall education, we should let children develop good behavior habits, healthy physique and sound personality in childhood happy games, so as to lay a good foundation for future development. In the development of preschool education, the most critical people or people who really undertake and support the development of this cause are our vast number of preschool teachers. Therefore, although we are ordinary, we practice the promise of "leading life with love" with our own small actions! A love word will produce infinite power, and the result of doing the same thing with your heart is completely different from that of trying to do it. It is also teaching and educating people. Doing it as a career is definitely different from doing it as a career.
First, adhere to the "three strictness" and be brave in taking responsibility.
The present situation of preschool education in China is that there are fewer male teachers and more female teachers. The disadvantage of being an aunt is the lack of masculinity and strength of men. In the specific process of education and teaching, many teachers are content to play the role of "nanny" for their own reasons or social reasons. Now most children are only children, and they are "little emperors" and "little princesses" at home. The family model of 4+2+ 1 gives children almost all satisfaction and connivance. These are extremely unfavorable to children's growth. Some children are timid and even have serious gender dislocation, and boys are feminine; Some children are at the other extreme, arrogant, reckless, fearless and fearless. He is the best in the world. Therefore, to correct children's bad habits and cultivate a sound personality, we must be strict in teaching.
1. Be serious but don't forget your responsibilities.
Serious means that teachers should not always whisper and be gentle in the process of education and teaching. Adjust the intonation, wording and speaking speed according to the specific situation. Especially for children who have done something wrong, we should seriously criticize and educate them, but at the same time we should not forget our responsibilities. Education is the fundamental purpose. Seriously, we should not abuse it, which is mainly reflected in our attitude. A dignified atmosphere lets children know that doing something wrong is responsible.
2. Be strict but stick to the principle
Strict refers to appropriate strict requirements, not blind indulgence, connivance and tolerance. For example, children are required to observe discipline during meals and lunch breaks, that is, they must strictly abide by the rules of the game when playing games. But strictly speaking, it can't be linked with punishment, mainly in behavior, and children are subject to standardized discipline. The strong boy in our class is very attractive, but he can't control his behavior, either touching this or pushing that. An activity that is often carefully prepared is either destroyed by children's complaints or made impossible by children's crying. Therefore, being criticized has become his daily routine. Then I thought of a way to change his plan and came out. That is, I recorded the performance of the strong, made up a short story, and the children performed it, and then the "audience" judged right and wrong. Qiang Qiang realized his mistake, gradually changed, stopped being naughty, listened carefully in class, and teachers and children liked him more and more.
3. Strict, never corporal punishment
The severity can only be targeted at very few cases, that is to say, due to the influence of family or environment, very few children have developed very bad habits, even bad qualities. For such a child, we should take more severe measures against him on the premise of communicating with parents. However, no matter how severe the method is, corporal punishment or corporal punishment in disguised form is absolutely not allowed, mainly to create an atmosphere and a situation for him, so that he has no unscrupulous space and opportunities. For example, Xiaoyu in our class, her parents divorced when she was a child. She never eats on time at home with her mother. She eats many times a day. She makes trouble when she eats in the garden, and eats when others are playing. In view of this situation, I won't give her a little red flower once, and I won't let her eat at dinner. In this bad atmosphere, that is, in a week's time, her shortcomings have been completely corrected and supported and affirmed by her parents.
Second, the word "Wen" is great love.
As a kindergarten teacher, half of them actually play the role of mother. But the teacher is not a mother after all, and can't completely treat himself as a mother. They should have the warmth and selfless love of their mothers. I sum up and do the following three things:
1. Warm but not doting
2. Gentle but not weak
3. Warm but not indulgent
To achieve these three points, the role orientation of teachers is particularly important. Parents' "excessive care, over-substitution, over-education, over-demand and over-satisfaction" in the family have caused many problems to children, some of whom have low self-esteem and poor self-confidence; Some children are timid, afraid of doing things and lack independent consciousness; Other children are extremely destructive and aggressive. Therefore, it has become a sacred and irreplaceable duty for our kindergarten teachers to cultivate children's healthy, uplifting, lively and cheerful personality from childhood through kindergarten education, and to develop the good qualities of hard-working, self-confident, daring to endure hardships in the face of difficulties, persevering in the end and being a good boy with physical health and mental health. With the active guidance and enthusiastic encouragement of teachers rather than parents, children learn to communicate, improve their understanding, standardize their behavior, and gradually form a lively and cheerful personality and good personality quality. Lay a solid foundation for children to enter school in the future and adapt to high-speed and fast-paced school life. For example, once, in my class, Lei Lei, a boy who didn't like to take part in group activities, loved to cry whenever something happened. While playing the slide, he accidentally tripped over his companion, cut his little hand and shed a little blood. Many children gathered around to care about him. However, Lei Lei resisted the pain of scratching his little hand. He didn't cry. At this time, I didn't just coax him into hurting him like my mother usually did, but sang a song to praise him: "A good baby never cries when he gets up. A good baby walks without being hugged by his mother. A good baby falls down and gets up by himself, and his hands are dirty." While listening to the teacher singing, Lei Lei happily ran to play on the slide. Many children cast an approving look at him. Another time, when I was playing with children, I accidentally knocked over a child. I apologize to the child at once. An "sorry" apology made the child happy all day. When her mother came to pick her up in the evening, the child happily told her, "The teacher is so polite today. She knocked me down and apologized to me ... ". The teacher's "I'm sorry" made the children feel so happy. In fact, every mother understands this truth, but if maternal love is too rampant, it is not impossible to achieve this effect. How important it is for teachers and mothers to educate their children about love.
Preschool teachers are the first guides for children to enter the collective learning life. One is full of love for children, which can organically combine love with strict requirements, so that children can feel the strict requirements of teachers, that is, they are loving them. Tao Xingzhi once said, "What teachers want to create is a living, true, good and beautiful person." Such a child will love others while feeling the teacher's great love, and will always be grateful in his later life. As Bing Xin said, "With love, everything comes." Love is the greatest emotion of human beings and the core of all noble qualities and good morals. Through education, children are trained from natural persons to people who know, cherish, care, have a sense of responsibility and have a sound personality. Let love be deeply rooted in children's hearts and let every child have a love!
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