1. Create a relaxed and warm family environment for children.
Capture the psychological changes of adolescent children, understand their psychological needs, give them more respect, care and trust, and let them feel the warmth of home. Never quarrel between husband and wife because of his problems, which is very unfavorable to their mental health development.
Parents should be calm and manage their emotions.
Children who have been obedient since childhood may no longer be obedient at this stage, while children who have been lively and cheerful since childhood may be silent at this stage. Parents should accept their children's changes in their hearts and find out the reasons for their changes. There is nothing that can't be discussed, instead of getting angry in a hurry, like a headless fly, and don't complain and blame the child.
3. Less blame and more encouragement.
When the content you communicate with your child involves a lot of dissatisfaction with you, please try to blame less and encourage more. When a child's exam results are not ideal, as a parent, don't blame, care and encourage too much because of a ranking or score, so that the child can feel your concern for him.
Don't pry into his privacy.
Even if you want to know what the child really thinks! They are extremely sensitive and intelligent, and any superfluous words you say will cause them to distrust you, so wait quietly and calmly for your children to tell you. He doesn't communicate with you and keeps secrets from his parents, which shows that they think their parents are unsafe and untrustworthy. At this time, as parents that children can trust, it is time to reflect on themselves.
5. Accept his friends.
Don't judge and interfere with his friends, but you can communicate with your children and explain the boundaries and standards of making friends. The tone should be fair and objective, they will listen and consider, but parents can't forcibly stop and interfere, otherwise it will cause strong resistance from children.
puberty
It refers to the first reproductive period marked by the maturity of reproductive organs and the development of secondary sexual characteristics. In humans and higher primates, it is marked by the first menstruation of women.
Adolescence is an important period of physical development in a person's life and a transitional period between childhood and adulthood. It is the second peak of growth and development after infancy, and the World Health Organization (WHO) stipulates that adolescence is 10 to 20 years old.