As an experienced person who is about to leave childhood, from my own point of view, I think I can do it.

Parents should not show off their wealth in front of their children even if they have money. Instead, they should tell their children about their parents' difficulties. Children are suffering, but they are also growing.

But you can't keep holding him back. Occasionally, when he gets good grades or performance, you can also give him something to encourage him.

I hope I can solve your troubles. ...