When I was listening to a book this morning, I heard a conversation between Mr. Fan Deng and Mr. Jin Weichun. At that time, I felt that I had been struck by lightning. I think if I had understood this truth ten years ago, I would have achieved much more today. No matter what your situation is today, please listen carefully. My next words will certainly help you grow up.
Teacher Jin said: that kind of upside-down life is to take other people's affairs too seriously and God's affairs too seriously, but not to face your own affairs seriously. We often hear people say that my problem now is that our children don't study well, and my problem now is that I can't earn much money;
If you feel that life has been short of money, you are living a small life, and the money is bigger than you, and the money has pinned you down. If you think our children have poor academic performance, you are younger than your children and your children are older than you, it is difficult for you to educate them. Have a good life, when I want to be with you, my money is bigger than yours, and when my children want to be with you, they are bigger than you. We need to start by admitting our mistakes. For example, if you accompany your child to do homework, you are playing with your mobile phone, and the child is very sad to see sensitivity. You should say you're sorry. This is mom's fault. Mom should concentrate on being with you. If your family is nagging, you may not need to do anything. You should listen carefully and respect her. What is behind your mistake? It is recognition and acceptance, and it is our ability to reflect. Don't spend all day thinking about how to change others.
We should learn to distinguish our own affairs. We should be responsible for our own affairs first. We need to turn such a complicated life into only one thing, that is, live well, be happy, accept, love and like ourselves. We have a group of such people around us. I always feel that there is a kind of inexplicable magnetism and energy in them, which always makes us different. Now, when I take the initiative to approach you, when I want to be with you, the money and reputation you want will be close to you. I hope women can understand this truth.