Since ancient times, people of insight have attached great importance to the cultivation and education of children, and attached great importance to the art of educating children, often integrating education into culture, leaving many anecdotes. So far, it is still very enlightening. This collection is for readers. & gt Lu You, a poet in the Song Dynasty, wrote in the poem "Reading on a Winter Night": "The ancients learned nothing, and the young are not old; I feel that on paper, I never know if this should be done. " When the poet was a teenager, he warned his son (Yu Zi) that the success of learning lies in hard work, but the knowledge gained from books is still superficial, and you must practice it yourself to thoroughly understand the essence of things. This is also a summary of Lu You's lifelong learning experience. Huang Yanpei, a famous educator and social activist in China, once wrote a poem for his son Huang Da: "Truth must be sought in reason, truth must be sought in things, words must be kept, and deeds must be carried out." Teach children to be energetic, calm, honest and sincere. & gt Lin Ribin wrote a couplet to his son Lin Zexu in the Qing Dynasty: "Poor tea is better than white rice, and this old man enjoys it; It is Cao's job to rule the country and level the world. "Lin Zexu lived up to his father's expectations, remembered his father's teachings and put them into action, and eventually became a national hero holding high the anti-imperialist banner. Lin Zexu also wrote a pair of couplets to his children and grandchildren: "If my children and grandchildren are like me, what should I do with the money?" "If you are virtuous and have more money, you will lose your ambition; My children and grandchildren are not as good as me. What did you leave the money for? Foolish and rich, beneficial and harmful. " Advocate that elders should let their children and grandchildren stand on their own feet instead of relying on them. After reading it, people are deeply inspired. & gt When Mai Su, the eldest son of Su Dongpo, a great writer in the Song Dynasty, went to his post, Su Dongpo personally sent an inkstone and engraved an inscription in his hand: "You are eager to enter the Tao, you are surprised and enterprising, and you always think about wealth and always think about life." Mai Su said that he must live up to his father's entrustment and be a diligent and honest official. Tao, the son of Tao Xingzhi, a famous educator, wanted to enter Chengdu Radio Repair Shop, but he didn't have a formal education and asked for a fake diploma without telling his father. Tao Xingzhi immediately telegraphed his son from other places to return his diploma and sent a letter with a sincere heart. The letter also wrote a couplet: "I would rather be a real Ding Bai than a fake scholar." Mr. Tao's life is like this. & gt Fu Cijiao's youngest daughter, Yuan Mei, a poet in the Qing Dynasty. She is gifted and intelligent. Many famous families came to ask for relatives, but he refused. Instead, she married the son of a common people in Gusu City and wrote a poem "Marrying a Wife" as a gift: "Gu En is not rich, but her husband's pity is beyond her capacity. But listening to the sound of Guan Sui is always in the spring breeze. " The woman followed her father's instructions and passed the word down from generation to generation as a family heirloom. & gt According to legend, Sima Guang, a famous official and historian in the Northern Song Dynasty, regarded frugality as beauty all his life, hated extravagance and had a history of "selling land to bury his wife". He also influenced his children with his cautious words and deeds, always warning them to understand the truth that "frugality means long time, long time means security, and security means stability". Sima Guang was quoted by others in the article "Training frugality to show health" and was later persuaded to tell his son the truth of honesty and frugality. In his article, he put forward that "it is easy to be frugal and difficult to be frugal", which is a famous motto of governing the country. I also cited an example of "thrifty construction and extravagant unemployment" in the world, hoping that my son would give such education to future generations. & gt Xu Mian, an innocent heirloom in the Southern and Northern Dynasties, worked as an assistant minister and minister (equivalent to a prime minister) in a senior position, but he didn't care about family property, didn't buy land, and distributed his salary to the poor at home and people with difficulties in life. Someone advised him to leave some savings for his children and grandchildren. He said, "I left money for my children, but I left innocence for them." I hope that future generations can respect themselves and be self-reliant and self-reliant. & gt Zheng Banqiao, a great painter in the Qing Dynasty, had a son in his later years, but he didn't spoil him. When he died, he asked his son to make steamed bread for him. The son asked the chef, and finally learned to make a steamed bread and send it there. Zheng Banqiao died, leaving only one sentence: "Sweat, stand on your own feet, do your own thing, rely on your ancestors and not be a hero." On his deathbed, Lu You, a poet in the Song Dynasty, wrote in the poem Shizi: "When he died, everything was empty, but there was no sorrow in Kyushu. Julian Waghann has set the Central Plains Day in the north. Don't forget to tell Naion about the family festival. " Educate children to establish the ambition of patriotism and serving the country. & gt famous godson 1945 Lin, a proletarian revolutionary, said to his youngest son, who just turned 6 and is about to go to primary school, "You should have an authentic name when you go to school. I think you should call it' Yong San'! " The son is puzzled. Lin Lao explained: "Use three, use three, that is, think with your brain, build machines with your hands, and step on the ground with your feet!" " Educate your son to be diligent in thinking, hands-on and practical. & gt Bao Zheng, an honest official in Song Dynasty, lived a frugal life and was honored as "Bao Qingtian" by ordinary people. He is strict with others, himself and his family. He once wrote family instructions, carved on a stone tablet and stood in front of the east wall of his hometown. The full text is as follows: "future generations are officials, and those who commit the most heinous crimes shall not return to their own homes;" After his death, he should not be buried in a big coffin. Not from my ambition, not from my descendants. " Educate children and grandchildren to understand that honesty is the foundation of being an official. & gt The exhorter in the book is the Prime Minister of the Tang Dynasty (15). His daughter is a princess and his son is Xu. His position is very high, but he is cautious as an official and manages his family well. Always warn children: never be arrogant, never be arrogant and extravagant, and never bully others. To this end, he specially collected the commandments of ancient and modern celebrities and copied them on the screen one by one, so that his children could take a set from time to time to restrain their words and deeds. & gt This poem tells the story of Zheng Banqiao, an upright official in the Qing Dynasty. When her daughter got married and had no money to buy a dowry, she put on a picture of Lanzhu, and wrote a poem on it: "The official stopped wearing cold sleeves empty-handed, and talked about selling paintings to accompany Korean rice. What Wu Yin is most ashamed of is that he has little money and gave me some orchids in the spring breeze. " This picture poem not only expresses the author's anxiety about her daughter's rough marriage, but also teaches her to be as fragrant as an orchid. & gt It is also worth learning that Zeng Guofan of A Qing Dynasty was taught by the book Love Your Son, Teach Him Integrity and Tolerance of Evil. He said in "The Book of Gods": "Any disciple of a noble family can achieve great things just like a poor scholar in food, clothing and daily life; If you have money and habits, you can't expect to succeed. " He also taught children, "Don't think about being an official, think about learning." This strict requirement for children finally enabled his eldest son Ceng Jize to "complete poetry, calligraphy and painting, and be able to teach himself English". Become a famous diplomat at that time. & gt He, a famous poet and calligrapher in the Qing Dynasty, heard that his daughter was preparing a dowry in Beijing and brought back a box. My daughter opened it and saw that there was nothing in the box. At the bottom of the box was neatly written a big word-"diligence". The daughter immediately understood her father's good intentions, and this "one-word bride price" has since become the motto of her daughter's housekeeping. & gt