1, details of life
Mr. Fu Lei is very strict with Fu Cong. For example, the rules of food, clothing, housing and transportation, such as table manners, don't make any noise when eating, and so on. When educating children, Mr. Fu Lei put forward his own suggestions from every aspect and every detail, only to make Fu Cong a better person and a smoother life in the future.
2. Spiritual world
Fu Lei also pays great attention to children's ideological spirit. When educating children, he can always find out their state and educate them according to these. Mr. Fu Lei's words are both targeted and universal. Only with a good attitude and correct thinking can we grow better.
In the face of various situations in life, Mr. Fu Lei will also have some feelings and educate children. Be strong, so that you will not be dragged down by negative factors in the environment, and you will have the remaining energy to shout for your good friends. People must first strive for self-improvement, and only when they are strong can they do what they want.
3. Music.
As an artist, I ask my son to sincerely love art, carry forward art, and improve his taste and appreciation of art; As a musician, I ask my son to embrace different styles of music with an open mind; As a pianist, we should keep flowing, constantly deduce new songs with different styles, and pay more attention to mastering and controlling the whole song, rather than floating on the performance skills.
4. Emotional processing
When Fu Cong encountered emotional confusion, Mr. Fu Lei gave him extremely important thoughts. Fu Lei thinks that the most important thing is kindness in nature, gentleness in nature and an open mind. He doesn't value his daughter-in-law's family, education and other external conditions. As long as she has a good nature, everything else can be cultivated slowly.
Fu Lei told Fu Cong and his daughter-in-law Milla many times that they must respect, tolerate and understand each other, which is the key to lasting affection.
The function of Fu Lei's letters
1, discussing art.
2. Inspire young people's feelings.
3. Train Fu Cong and Fu Min to write and think.
4. Be a faithful "mirror". The content of the letter is more about art and life than trivial matters, instilling the noble sentiments that an artist should have, letting his son know "the honor and disgrace of the country and the dignity of art" and being an "artist with both ability and political integrity and outstanding personality".