Parents' minds determine the way children look at things.

The level of parents determines the road under the feet of children.

Eight cartoons let you see the difference between reliable parents and unreliable parents. Encourage with you and be a reliable high-level parent together!

1, 90% of the companies you give your children are "fake"

The school held a parent-teacher meeting, and a principal said in the lecture:

"Looking at the school, the children's transcripts have been sent out. From the back to the front, the children with the worst grades must be the least accompanied by their parents. "

Those children with excellent grades are not only self-conscious, but their parents have paid more meaningful companionship to education.

However, what is the real meaning of companionship?

Some parents are busy with their work. In order to create a good learning environment for children and run around for the "school district", little time is left for family and children.

Some parents and the whole family went into battle together. Grandparents walk around the children all day, cooking, washing, picking up and dropping off, dressing and feeding with homework, leaving no time for themselves and no room for children to be alone.

May all parents understand:

With 10% heart, accompany 10 hour, it is better to use 100% heart, accompany 1 hour.

2. Full marks parents see the process.

Failed parents only look at the results.

There is a classic advertising slogan that everyone must have heard of:

Life is a journey, what we care about is not the destination, but the scenery along the way and the mood to see it.

For travel, the destination is of course important, but just thinking about the destination and rushing to arrive early will miss a lot of scenery in front of you. It is a kind of beauty to keep a good mood, look slowly and move forward slowly.

The same is true of children's study. If parents only care about the result of a game and the figures on the report card, they will miss a lot of children's growth.

What we lose in hake we shall have in herring.

Perhaps the child failed to achieve the ideal result, but in the process of hard work, he gained happiness, good quality and many things more meaningful than achievements and results.

If you can't see your child's efforts in this process, you can't fully accept your child's body and mind.

Learning to appreciate children's efforts in the process is a compulsory course for every parent.

3. Educate children not to rely on others, but only on themselves.

Bai Zeng said directly in an interview: "Many parents will blame schools and teachers for the fault of educating their children. In fact, the most important thing to reflect on is parents themselves. "

Parents are the children's first teachers, and they are also the eternal class teachers. Although this truth sounds vulgar, it is true.

Teachers have the responsibility of teaching and educating people, but frankly speaking, it is difficult for teachers to take care of every child, especially the personality and moral quality of children.

Parents are the ones who really get along with their children and have the deepest influence on them.

Parents should never rely entirely on others to educate their children.

Your good mood is your child's good weather.

Educating children with emotion has become a common problem for many parents.

If you often deny children, then you must pay attention. It's time to change your attitude.

If children are often denied, they will gradually lose self-confidence, lose the courage to try, become inferior and cowardly, and have doubts about themselves.

If you often bring the emotions in your work and life to your children, praise them when you are happy, and ignore or deny them when you are unhappy, then you have to change yourself.

Bringing your emotions to your children will make them feel insecure in family life. You never know when your parents' emotions will fall on you.

A child with low sense of value and no self-confidence was raised in this way.

Agree with Yin Jianli's words: "Educating children is nothing more than having a good talk with him. Don't get angry in a hurry. If you do this, you will succeed 80%. "

If you do this, your children will be very lucky.

The biggest mistake in education is to prevent children from making mistakes.

I have heard such a story. Three mothers went out with three children and met the same road. The road is rugged and bumpy.

The first mother said, "This road is too dangerous. You can't walk. You'll fall. Let's go back. "

The second mother said, "son, this road is not easy." Go with your mother. "

The third mother said, "son, this road is a bit difficult, but we must take this road to reach our destination." Mom will take you, and we will walk slowly. "

As a result, it is conceivable that the third child has successfully gone through a difficult road under the guidance of his mother. From then on, he was able to walk alone without fear or flinching.

This road is the way out and the way of life.

Some roads, children must go by themselves, and some mistakes, children must make by themselves.

Parents should allow their children the opportunity to try and make mistakes without hurting others or touching the moral bottom line.

Let the children know that no one will never make mistakes. It is important that we learn from our mistakes how to correct them and improve ourselves.

6. Smart parents encourage their children.

Bad parents, beating children.

"Look at other people's children, how can they do so well?"

"As long as you want to go to XX school, don't look at yourself."

"Come on, I don't think you can do it. Or give up. "

Will you be happy if your children compare you with other people's parents all day?

Parents must remember that other people's children have never been the benchmark to inspire their children's efforts.

Every child has his own characteristics, and breaking through himself is victory. Encourage children to be brave and look at their choices with appreciation.

7. High-level parents are guides.

Low-level parents only lose their temper.

The philosopher Pascal said, "Man is a thinking reed."

Whether you know how to think is the key to your child's success.

Children with independent thinking ability can keep a calm heart in a troubled society, and will not go with the flow or be moderate. They are sober and self-aware, and they can always move towards their goals.

Children's curiosity is the first step to inspire thinking.

In the process of growing up, children often have some manifestations of curiosity germination. Some parents will be furious, others will stop it, and high-level parents know how to use their children's curiosity to arouse their children's thinking.

Parents should keep their children curious and guide them to explore.

8. Children are not your hope, but you are.

Many parents will make the same mistake: pin all their hopes on their children.

When I was young, I had no unfinished business. I hope it can be done by my children.

Therefore, parents strive for the best educational opportunities for their children, take their children to expensive cram schools, and buy the best school districts for their children.

However, parents are reluctant to invest in themselves.

Children are replicas of their parents' lives, and your present life is a portrayal of your children's future life.

A family without books and parents who don't study can't raise children who love reading.

The background of parents' self-management and their own efforts is the best benchmark and example for children's growth.

Children grow up only once, and if they miss it, they can't be redeemed.

I hope you and I can see our own problems in these eight cartoons and then slowly correct them.

Find problems as soon as possible, improve as soon as possible, walk with children, and let education leave no regrets.