13- 18-year-old children have reached puberty and rebellious period. When getting along with the rebellious son of youth, we should pay attention to several problems:
One: be tolerant of children and forgive their mistakes;
Second, understand children, be good parents and learn to listen;
Third, pay attention to cultivating children's non-intellectual factors;
Content of non-intellectual factors
Because non-intelligence factors refer to personality psychology that plays a role in starting, guiding, maintaining and strengthening learning activities other than intelligence, psychologists regard those personality psychology as the main content of non-intelligence factors. Most psychologists believe that the main contents of non-intelligence factors are:
1. hobbies;
2. Happy mood and enthusiasm for the cause;
3. Endurance and willpower to setbacks;
4. Lively personality and broad mind;
5. Confidence and ambition;
6. lofty ideals and goals;
7. High ambition;
8. Anxiety.
Fourth; Don't compete with adolescent children, be the helmsman in the voyage of children's growth, let go but not indulge, let children discover themselves, and discover themselves;
Five: help children develop good habits;
Intransitive verbs resolutely put an end to exposing children's short-lived behavior, and don't indulge yourself in dealing with children's ignorant mistakes with wrong behaviors.
Guide children to make their own action plans, and parents don't do it for them.
Guide children to think about their activities, and parents should not tell them what to do.
Parents are in no hurry to guide their children to solve their own problems.
Guide children to face up to the consequences of their actions, and parents do not complain.
Guide children to reflect on their own shortcomings, and parents should not nag and exaggerate.
Parents don't worry about guiding their children to meet future challenges.
For adolescent children, the most taboo things in family education are: negative evaluation, heartless reprimand, unwarranted suspicion, unreasonable demands, empty preaching and selfish doting. Letting go is not indulgence, but active restraint, not treating middle school students as children and giving them opportunities to exercise.
We should think more about the education of adolescent children and adopt scientific methods to effectively solve the problems encountered in their growth. In the past, I tried to make my son realize his mistake by not letting him eat, but it was useless. In order to win his heart, no matter what happens, I will ensure that my son eats well and is full!
_ I wish you and your family good luck, health and happiness _ I wish your children a happy growth _