Hard hitting is the least successful education method for rebellious children, so before communicating with children, anxious parents must always remind themselves to stay calm, don't start beating and scolding their children when they are in a hurry, and forget the plan of good communication.

Second, observe more in communication.

There are many ways to communicate. If parents have been immersed in the role of parents who are anxious and worried about their children, communication will deviate from the rational way. Therefore, it is advisable to observe what problems exist in their communication with their children, look at their rebellion from a bystander's point of view and communicate with them from different angles.

Third, solve the problem through consultation.

Solving problems by negotiation, even if the negotiation fails, will enhance the emotional atmosphere, which is conducive to the communication of future problems. Parents often make mistakes that the current problems are not solved, which also destroys the emotional atmosphere, blocks emotional communication and loses the opportunity to solve problems in the future.

Fourth, discuss more and order less.

For example, to remind children that it is time to do their homework, you can say, "It's time, shouldn't you do your homework?" Instead of just saying, "Stop watching TV and do your homework!" "In this way, the child will feel that you respect him and are willing to listen to you.

If parents can't discipline their rebellious children, they can consult educational institutions such as Avon Education, including adolescent education experts, adolescent psychological counseling and excellent teachers. , can fundamentally solve the problem.