1. How to educate your daughter about sex?
When my daughter was about two years old and just talked to me, I took the initiative to tell her, "You grew up in your mother's belly, and then your mother couldn't hold back and gave birth to you." Then tell her all kinds of interesting things when she was in her mother's belly. My daughter has always liked her "childhood story".
Once, she seemed to come back and asked me, "How did you give birth to me?" I pointed to the bottom and said, "Born here." She frowned and said, "Is it like taking a shit?" I nodded. She covered her nose with a bad smile: "Doesn't it stink!" I hugged her and said, "You are in a clean and safe house in your mother's belly, and there is a door for you to come out, not a door with shit." The daughter showed a thoughtful look.
Occasionally, the father takes his daughter to the Science and Technology Museum. After coming back, my daughter said to me happily, "I know how the baby is formed." A warm egg of my mother combined with a sperm of my father and grew up to be a baby. " I pretended to be surprised and praised her: "I have learned so much knowledge! In fact, dad has a lot of sperm, but only when he runs fast can he combine with the egg and grow into a baby. " The daughter said excitedly, "I am the fastest one!" " "I asked my father about it. It turns out that the science and technology museum has a touch screen, which is specially used to explain the formation process of life. My little daughter has been studying there alone for a long time.
The science and technology museum is specially for children, and experts from all walks of life are involved. I believe that children have a say in the ways and contents of education at different stages. So I personally took my daughter there twice, which was very enlightening, but my daughter was obviously not interested. Maybe she thinks she understands.
I think the scientific explanation of the science and technology museum is more carried out through touch screens, games and other ways. But it's not three-dimensional, so I specially took my daughter to the Natural Museum in Cheng Nan, where there is an illustrated human specimen museum. My daughter is so absorbed in her study that she asks me to read every illustration. I found that my daughter is actually interested in every system of the human body. In her eyes, the system that worries us is only a part of the human body.
My experience is that family education is one aspect of daughter's sex education, and how to make use of public education resources is also very important. Because I have some problems with the depth, it's a good idea to take her to see some exhibitions specially for children. Just read on the spot. For example, at present, I have encountered a temporary problem: recently, my daughter asked me what sanitary napkins are for. This question is highly relevant. I'm still thinking about how to explain it to a child over 5 years old. Maybe I need to check online and see where the exhibition can help me solve it.
2. The main content of children's sex education
1, gender consciousness, according to the theory of psychoanalysis, sexual instinct is the biggest growth motivation of life, although extreme, it is enough to illustrate the role of sexual instinct. So, the next time a child asks you, "Where am I from?" When children are interested in their own bodies, when children are interested in the opposite sex, don't be in a hurry to suppress or reprimand them. Accompany children to read some picture books and some gender-aware cartoons, so that children can learn all kinds of information through their parents' mouths, which will be of great help to them and make their lives less.
2. Parent-child communication. This is a very important link. Many children are really afraid to tell their parents when they are threatened by bad people. How scared is a child if he is afraid to tell his parents? The usual parent-child communication seems normal, but it can bring enough strength and powerful protection shield to children. This link is done well, no matter in which way it is beneficial and harmless.
3. Ability to protect yourself. Many children will fall into a state of stupor in the face of stress events. They don't know how to face it, what measures to take, or even whether to tell their families. Their ability to protect themselves is extremely poor. There are also some children at the other extreme. They are easily impatient and emotional. In the face of bad guys, their strong resistance will also get children into trouble. Therefore, we need to strengthen children's awareness of self-protection, teach them some necessary skills, and at the same time let them learn to outwit and minimize the probability of injury.
Sex education really needs a lot of energy and wisdom, and the specific methods will vary widely. Every child is different. How to make children and parents do it comfortably and effectively requires everyone to brainstorm.