Dependence on parents is strongest when children are very young. When children have no pressure to study in college, parents and children will not have conflicts because of learning conflicts, because at this time, children's learning tasks are not heavy. Once the children go to primary school, the whole family atmosphere is even more tense. When children are studying, there will be scenes where chickens fly and dogs jump, which is a true portrayal of countless family counseling assignments.
In most communities, children will hear homework, all kinds of growls and nervousness. Children can cry or react angrily, and mothers may continue to growl. These sounds were drowned out. The whole quiet night is the mother's helplessness and the child's complaint.
These seemingly inhabited places are inhabited every day. In fact, there are contradictions between mother and son. So what influence do parents have on their children's roaring education?
1. Seriously hit children's enthusiasm and self-esteem.
The roaring education of parents to children is a challenge to children, which has seriously hit their enthusiasm and affirmed our children's ego.
Therefore, children growl at education, which makes children have a negative heart and self-denial. Therefore, parents are advised not to breed children, and parents should actively adjust their status.
2. Interrupt the child's learning state
When children are doing their homework, this is a process of thinking. If parents continue to growl next to their children, it will interrupt their thinking process, so I suggest parents keep quiet until the children finish talking and guide them not to growl directly, so that your children can have a quiet learning environment.
3. Make children timid
Yelling at children will make them timid, deny themselves, and make you feel timid. You always handle everything and emotions carefully and suppress me, which has a great influence on the children's hearts. So once the children are cured in front of their parents, I can't say what I think. This time, parents should pay more attention to their children's core, actively communicate, understand and help their children adjust themselves, and also gently adjust themselves and change themselves. What are the negative effects of parents on their children? Starting from 3 o'clock, parents should adjust.
Growing up slowly and turning into a snail is a calm view of parents on their children's long-term growth in this process, so don't rush to urge their children to grow up and accompany them to grow up slowly. It treats children correctly, so it patiently sees children help them grow up and make progress together in the long process of growth.