Nowadays, children are very precocious, and girls are even more precocious than boys. Many girls in the fourth and fifth grades of primary school have already menstruated. After children enter primary school, they will have a deeper understanding of "the prevention of men and women". Therefore, generally speaking, it is more appropriate to take the age of entering primary school as an opportunity to avoid suspicion, no later than adolescence.

Avoid suspicion between the opposite sex. If you don't avoid suspicion because of your brothers and sisters, embarrassing things may happen in the end. Especially in adolescence, any intimate contact between brothers and sisters is eliminated.

Matters needing attention for brothers and sisters to avoid suspicion

1, every stage of children's growth should be sex education.

According to the track of children's gender development, parents can't ignore sex education at every stage of children's growth. From reading picture books when I was a child, I consciously guided boys and girls to different hobbies, to practical operation, and taught girls to use sanitary products. Sex education runs through.

You don't have to sleep separately to avoid suspicion.

Brothers and sisters are used to being together since childhood, even if they avoid suspicion, there should be a gradual process. The most taboo is cliff avoidance. Suddenly separating children will only make them uncomfortable and feel "shameful" to be together before. During the transition period, parents can sleep in the middle of the bed, separate brothers and sisters or siblings, and then sleep in separate beds when appropriate. In short, the method should be flexible and don't rush for success.

3. Teach children to protect their bodies.

Tell your baby from an early age that your private parts can't be touched by others or exposed in public, and tell boys to learn to respect women. Parents must educate their children about gender in time, so that their babies can have a better growth environment.