1, give the child a choice. It is very important to let children do things according to their own interests, which is also one of the best ways to help children succeed. If you let your child feel that she has the freedom to choose Latin dance or aerobics, she will work harder to do the one she chooses.

2. Accept him. If you are only interested in whether your child is the best reader in the class, then _, your expectations are too high. Every child develops at his own speed and becomes a success. Comparing your child with other children will make him feel that if he doesn't study and do things according to a special standard, he is a failure.

3. Find out whether there is any difficult existence hidden in the darkness. Have you ever asked your children why they suddenly refused to sign up for group activities and do their homework? Maybe he will speak his mind under your understanding-he is bullied by bad children and he hates his teacher. If a child is getting less and less motivated, there is usually a legitimate reason.

4. State your reasons. What would you do if you didn't expect your child to give up the education of electronic organ culture, because there is no doubt that it is beneficial to him? Whatever you do, don't yell at the child and scold him hysterically. After shouting for less than ten minutes, he won't listen to what you have been saying.

5. Pay great attention to the efficacy of praise. Praise must be problem-oriented. You just say "well done" and he will understand that you didn't really notice the results of his stay with me.