Because parents don't consider their children's actual situation, many children are learning things that they are not interested in or good at. Children can't learn, parents don't understand, and they are sarcastic. These practices violate the educational concept of teaching students in accordance with their aptitude. Therefore, even if parents care about their children's education, there will be no good results.
Everyone has his own characteristics different from others, and children are no exception. It is necessary to take into account the actual situation of children's innate talents, hobbies and other aspects, discover and appreciate their characteristics, and encourage children to give play to their advantages. This is the educational concept of teaching students in accordance with their aptitude. ?
Suggestions on how to teach students in accordance with their aptitude are as follows:
First, we should fully understand children.
Every child has different personalities, interests and hobbies, and can't think. In addition to caring for children from all aspects, we should also observe children from all aspects, understand their personality, study and life, and understand their various needs, and then adopt different methods to guide, encourage and help them grow up healthily. Parents should know more about their children's personality, words and deeds, get closer to them, and know their hobbies, whether they like playing chess or drawing, swimming or dancing. Knowing these things about children, we also know how to teach students in accordance with their aptitude.
Second, according to the characteristics of children, adopt appropriate educational methods.
Every child has a different personality. Some children are careless and pay little attention to their parents' criticism; Some children are cautious and always afraid of making mistakes. Therefore, when we criticize and correct children's mistakes, we have to consider our own way of speaking. Otherwise, it will hurt the self-esteem of cautious children, or it will not have the due educational effect on careless children.
Third, let children work hard on their interests.
Children will devote their energy and time to areas of interest and will resolutely overcome the difficulties and obstacles they encounter. Therefore, don't scold your children when they see them doing things that have nothing to do with learning. In fact, this is what children are interested in exploring. We just need to make full use of this situation. Parents should find a better way to share their experiences with their children and let them have more children? Do something interesting. In this process, it can not only train children's will quality, but also cultivate their self-confidence and ability to find and solve problems.