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The education methods for disobedient children mainly include: diverting attention, finding out the reasons, communicating more and setting an example. 1. Distract. Children will rebel in early childhood and will not listen to the truth. You can divert your attention, put aside the current things for the time being, let the children do other things, and then go to education when their mood improves; 2. Find out the reasons and communicate more: when encountering something, pay attention to communicating with children, understand the reasons and ideas of disobedience, and solve problems patiently; 3. Set an example: Parents are children's first teachers, and parents' behavior will affect children's behavior. Therefore, the role model of parents runs through the whole process of children's education, which directly affects children's disobedience. Children who are disobedient should make symptomatic adjustments in the following ways:

1. Actively analyze the reasons for children's disobedience, such as whether the instructions and behaviors issued by parents are wrong, or they are insincere, and they have not set a good example for their children, or the children are rebellious and have a sense of independence when they enter adolescence. If there are any of the above problems, they should be dealt with according to the symptoms, and no matter who the problem is, it should be corrected in time;

Parents and children should communicate and coordinate with each other. Parents and children can become friends, but only if they respect each other, actively communicate with each other and express their feelings and thoughts about each other. Parents have an ideal child performance in their hearts, and children have an ideal parent image in their hearts. Only when two people understand each other and agree with each other can there be no contradictions and conflicts. These aspects are more important. Disobedient children can take measures such as diverting attention, making rules and setting an example.

1, divert children's attention: children are generally rebellious or willful in early childhood, and younger children do not listen to advice. It is more effective to divert children's attention. For example, when children are disobedient and crying, they can temporarily put aside the current things and use other things to divert their attention. When the child's mood improves and calms down, it can be guided and educated. At this time, children can often listen to reason.

2, formulate rules: negotiate with children, clearly say or write rules, as well as the completion time limit, clear rewards and punishments, such as washing hands before eating every day, washing a small red flower.

3. For example, children know what is wrong when they are young, but they don't necessarily know what to do correctly. Therefore, parents should demonstrate by themselves, set an example and teach their children how to do it, such as putting toys and folding clothes.