My daughter was accidentally seen outside the house by my friends because she played truant. I was very angry. I really hit her without asking why. At that time, I thought that I didn't work at home to take care of her, just to let her study with peace of mind. She actually played truant. I couldn't stand it psychologically for a while, and it was really out of control. After this incident, my relationship with my daughter became very bad.
Later, I bought Dean Tan's class under the introduction of a friend. Dean Tan talked with the children and learned the truth. It turned out that she played truant not because she didn't like reading, but because she was bullied by other children when she first arrived in the new class. Girls in junior high school are a little prone to cliques, so some girls in her new class always pull her hair in class (my daughter's hair is long and naturally curly like a doll) and then always throw her books, so she is a little scared before skipping class.
After knowing the truth, I actually regret it. Dean Tan also talked to me, and I found that I also had my own dereliction of duty. One is that I really didn't pay attention to the child's heart because I was deeply involved in daily necessities, and I didn't think much about her emotional abnormality in those days. The other is that I hit her just to vent my emotions and didn't ask why. I regret it.
Dean Tan has a very good saying, which I still remember. He said: You should know your own child best, and you can do whatever you want, but your subconscious predicts that your child is a bad boy.
Having said that, I actually want to say that responsible business education is to educate children and parents from scientific theory, so if you want to know the reason why children don't want to study, you might as well choose responsible business to try.