In recent years, education in Zhangdian District has encouraged students to read Disciples Rules. Although I have generally read it before and know what I am talking about, I really haven't read it carefully. During the holiday, I used my spare time to read Detailed Disciple Rules written by Cai Lixu, Taiwan Province Province. This is not a book that simply expounds the rules of disciples, but teaches people how to run a happy life by explaining the rules of disciples and combining many examples and reasons. Where is happiness? To create a happy life, we must first improve ourselves. We ordinary people ask too much of others and too little of ourselves. We are strict with ourselves. When looking for sincerity, we don't pay sincerity to the world, but hope others will be sincere to us. In the pursuit of perfection, we just ask others to be perfect. In fact, the most perfect is yourself. Only by taking the initiative to pay for life will we be happy. Happiness is not having more, but caring less. Happiness also lies in being content with your duty and doing your best. Fathers are filial, brothers are friends, and brothers respect each other. Only by fulfilling your social responsibilities and playing your role, happiness will naturally be around you. You are a good parent at home and a good teacher at school, so you will always feel happy. As long as you know how to cherish what you have in front of you, it is the reason for our happiness. Happiness also lies in grasping the present, treating yourself and others harmoniously, understanding and caring for others, and being broad-minded. "There is no me in heaven and earth, and between heaven and earth, there should be no me in heaven and earth." As long as there is love in our hearts, happiness is around us. "The hardest thing in life is not the struggle, but the choice." If you make the right choice, your life will be very happy. Life should also choose priorities, what to do first, and what to do later, in the right order. The first thing in life is to educate children well. How to teach children? Lead by example We know that the most important thing in educating children all their lives is the attitude of being a man and doing things, not the most important score, but we still attach too much importance to children's academic performance, because we attach too much importance to fame and fortune, can't let go of our own face, and attach too much importance to fame and fortune. Children should be taught to be human and learn to get along with others. Do things with a sense of responsibility, and children with a sense of responsibility will be responsible. Let children understand that learning is not for face, but a responsibility. A filial child wants to reassure his parents and let them live a good life, so he will constantly improve his virtue and ability, and such a child will have great development. "Really successful executives and entrepreneurs are not top-notch." What qualities will make people successful? Honest, responsible, modest, credible and patient. IQ is very important, but EQ is more important, and morality is the most important. Now, once westerners find out, there is another factor more important than doing good things, that is, the virtue of employees. Since virtue is so important, how should we educate our children? Children should be educated to be "good people". If a child has a kind heart, he will have good behavior, and naturally he will have kind friends and live a happy life. Therefore, teaching children is not reading a lot of books, but asking themselves to do it first. When we show good behavior, children will be subtly educated. The so-called "teaching by example is more important than teaching by words". If your child takes root now and knows how to behave, you have made him invincible in this life. Therefore, choice is the most important. What you choose to teach your child will affect your child's life. It will affect the happiness of your child's life, and it will also affect your happiness. How can we make the right choice? Establish reasons. How do we establish rationality? We must study and have good judgment in order to make a correct judgment. The sooner you establish rationality, the more important choices you can make in life. When we are rational, we will make the right choice. The most important thing in your choice is your idea. Thought determines your behavior, behavior determines your habits, habits form a person's character, and character determines a person's fate. Therefore, the key to a person's happiness is that "thinking" will affect your words and deeds. But now people's thoughts are generally self-centered, that is, selfish. How can we educate children not to be selfish? We should start from ourselves. When we really cultivate our body and mind, we can exert great power on our family and society. Filial piety is the first of all virtues, in fact, it should contribute to society, without the difficulties we imagined, and it is to improve his moral cultivation. "Filial piety first", you make a person truly filial, and he will respect all his parents. Zi rang went back to help others and care about others. Therefore, if we attach importance to children's virtue, the whole society will be peaceful. If children pay attention to material enjoyment from an early age, parents will not give them reasonable discipline, and it will be difficult to change if they are used to spending money. His goal is not to be filial to his parents, not to take care of his wife and children, but to satisfy his material desires, and he will become selfish. Therefore, children should be taught to be kind and considerate from an early age, and he will certainly benefit the society and be happy himself.