The future of children is the future of parents. If children have no talent, parents will suffer a lot, and there may be nothing to rely on in old age. Therefore, they will make demands on their children in their own way, hoping that children can grow up according to their own ideas and give themselves a safe guarantee.
In other words, children's demands on their parents are also a constraint. Parents in their thirties and forties are great opportunities for their career development. But for their own development, children often ask their parents to give up their spare time and invest a lot of money and financial resources. If their parents do not do well, they will also be complained by their children. Children are happy to run away from home, but parents can only work hard. They are actually more constrained.
Young people are soft-blooded and unstable. I hope the whole world will act according to its own wishes. Although this is the advantage of young people, it is also a huge disadvantage. The power of young people is often destructive (think of the fire in the Blue Speed Internet Cafe), which will destroy what adults have worked so hard to build.
The bondage of parents is just a restraining force, so that young people will not go their own way. This is the world. You bind me, I bind you. Everyone is bound to each other, and no one has absolute freedom. Mature people are the most self-disciplined. They bind themselves and don't do things they shouldn't do.
Nowadays, middle school students are often only children, who only take and don't know how to pay. The only requirement of parents is to study hard, and everyone has been complaining. If we can put ourselves in our parents' shoes and think more about their difficulties, I think everyone will understand more and complain less. The world will also reduce many unnecessary mistakes.