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How to educate adolescent girls
1. Parents should learn to look at problems from their children's perspective and understand their inner world. Girls yearn for independence during adolescence. When parents realize that their children have independent ideas, don't immediately comment and deny them. If the child has rebellious behavior, parents can only choose to be considerate of the child and let the child slowly try to be independent. Parents will be around to guide their children properly, and children will feel the hard work of their parents. When children do something wrong, parents should not blame and scold them, but should be considerate, guide them and let them reflect on their mistakes.

2. In adolescent girls, parents can help their children fulfill some wishes appropriately. Adolescent girls love beauty, but most parents think that if children spend time dressing up, it will affect their study. In fact, parents' understanding and support will make children know enough is enough, and they will try their best to meet their parents' expectations while loving beauty. Giving adolescent girls some independent space can make children grow up quickly in an environment of understanding and tolerance.

3. Listen to the children more and preach less. Most of the reasons for adolescent girls' rebellion come from their parents' preaching and incomprehension. They are eager for their parents to stop binding them and give them free space. Therefore, parents should help their children learn to be independent. When girls are eager to live independently, parents should care more about their children and listen to their inner thoughts. Parents' listening will make girls' sensitive hearts feel respected, and only the care and attention from parents can enrich their helpless hearts.

4. Communicate with children like friends. When parents feel their children's impatience and desire for independence, don't criticize their children's ideas in an attempt to change them. Give them mature advice in the form of friends, get their approval, and get their behavior cooperation.

5, teach girls to learn empathy, so that children can understand their parents' hearts. Adolescent children are unwilling to communicate with their parents, and parents will feel anxious, but they can't solve their problems. In fact, parents need not worry so much. Tell their children directly, "Baby, your parents can understand your feelings, but you should also tell your parents that they will worry about you because they love you. Next time you have something, you must tell your parents, "Let the children feel the love of their parents. Actually, girls are more sensible than boys. If parents can tell them the reason directly, they will certainly understand and cooperate with their parents.