Show more love.
In daily life and interaction with children, expressing love more helps to cultivate children's healthy emotions and help them express their feelings better.
Control emotion
It is very important to know and understand your emotions. As parents, we should not only understand children's emotions, but also teach them how to control them. By asking them why they are angry, we can better help them learn to control their emotions.
cultivate independence
Cultivating children's independence is an important part of EQ education. We should let them learn to make their own decisions from an early age, which will help cultivate their independent character. When children make the right decision, we should give affirmation and encouragement; When they encounter setbacks, we should guide them to respond positively and overcome negative emotions.
♀? Don't spoil too much.
Overindulgence of children will hurt their self-confidence and security. We should avoid saying things like "you can't do this, I'll help you", but let children learn to solve problems by themselves.
form good habits
Good habits can shape a person, and bad habits can destroy a person. Therefore, in principle, we should meet the needs of children, and at the same time formulate clear rules and boundaries to help children develop good habits.
Appropriate "laziness"
Boys should cultivate their ambitions and girls should cultivate their temperament. In the process of raising children, parents should learn to be "lazy" appropriately, and don't always complain about their children's lack of ability. Sometimes, the problem may be that parents are too diligent.
Respect for children
Giving children enough freedom and respect is the key to cultivating their emotional intelligence. We should learn to tolerate children's imperfections, wait patiently for them to grow up, and believe that they can do better.