Nowadays, parents believe in the concept of # Don't let children lose at the starting line #. Children start counting down from birth and work hard for the future. Even if they find that their children are not outstanding in their studies, they rarely consider whether they are suitable. On the contrary, they blame their children for not working hard enough to live up to their expectations. This mentality has brought great pressure to modern children. This paper will discuss how to relieve children's pressure from the perspective of modern parents' educational concept.

Demand varies from person to person.

Nowadays, parents plan their children's life and arrange everything for them from the moment they are born. But they ignore that children's needs are changing. The saddest thing is that parents' educational concept still stays in the past, thinking that meeting material needs is enough.

The learning environment is different.

It used to be easy for children to do homework after school, because parents didn't understand, and they all played by themselves. But now because parents have a certain level of education, children can get guidance when doing homework. This is a good thing, but some parents are too subjective in the guidance process, which leads to the tension of the original harmonious parent-child time.

Relieve children's stress

Parents should respect their children's needs and don't just plan their lives for them. When educating children, we should pay attention to cultivating children's hobbies and let them learn in happiness. In addition, parents should give their children enough freedom to have the opportunity to explore and try on their own.