It is common for children to make mistakes when they grow up, but how to deal with their own mistakes is a problem that every parent needs to ponder. The following are four suggestions I have compiled for my parents, hoping to help every parent.

Analyze the reasons in depth

Understand the specific situation and reasons of children doing something wrong, is it because of impulse, blind pursuit or being influenced by others? Knowing the root of the problem can help us guide our children more accurately.

Fair criticism.

When children make mistakes, necessary criticism is necessary, but criticism should be practical and realistic, reason with children, and let children truly realize their mistakes.

Pay attention to educational methods

In addition to direct criticism, children can be guided to realize their mistakes by telling stories and telling personal experiences. When children really realize their mistakes, we should give them encouragement and guidance.

Avoid being too harsh or angry.

When we talk to our children in a calm, serious but gentle tone, it will reduce their fear and resistance, which is more conducive to effective communication with our children and help them truly understand right and wrong.