2. Terrible doting. Some people may ask, a sound and harmonious family, there will be no problem children? Similarly, because of the appearance of doting, children often fall into honeypots by mistake. Loving children is what every parent will do, but excessive love will only make children have nothing to hide, and gradually normalize the love and sacrifice of others in their hearts, thus losing empathy for others and becoming arrogant and rude.
3. Too strict education methods. Some parents still punish their children in the same way. The idea of killing a dutiful son with a stick is still very marketable. Many children who are obviously smart and sensible are severely punished or even corporal punishment by their parents because of a small mistake. In the long run, children's psychology will naturally be distorted under this heavy pressure and become dark and violent.
4. Ignore children's psychological problems. Some parents take good care of their children, but they don't want to know more about their hearts. It seems that as long as their children study well and obey, they are good children. The inner cries of those children who are often ignored are actually the most important. How can we really educate our children if we don't listen to their voices? Children have no one to talk to, so they can only get some immature suggestions from classmates and friends, and finally get farther and farther away from their parents.
5. Parents didn't set an example. It takes three generations to make a gentleman. Family education itself is a continuous teaching activity. And the image that parents set up for their children will be subtly learned by children. The children taught by abusive parents must be abusive, and there must be a grumpy family behind the abusive children. If you want to educate your children well, you must first educate your parents themselves.