There are social reasons, the current social development speed is super fast, there are many information channels, and children's ideology is easily confused; Because of school education, the school only pays attention to children's academic performance, and basically ignores everything else. If children's academic performance is not good enough, it is easy to mix with some children who are not good at learning, and it is easy to learn badly.
Due to family education, our generation of parents, due to past historical reasons, most of them have not finished their studies or even read many books. Coupled with the pressure of life and work, they basically have no energy and ability to take care of their children.
There are also reasons of the times, such as the one-child problem, the left-behind children problem, the network problem and so on. It's really hard to educate a child.
In fact, it is absolutely necessary for our society to invite specialized institutions to educate children, or invite professionals to help deal with children's problems, because the division of labor in society is becoming more and more detailed, and the pressure on adults' survival and development is increasing. It is unrealistic for us to require every parent to be a psychologist, educator and expert.
What we only need to pay attention to is that the management of youth education institutions must be standardized, and employees must have high comprehensive quality and professional ability in order to be truly responsible for children.