In the final analysis, college students' premarital sex and cohabitation are all socialized phenomena. The increasingly open concept of sex in social clubs and repeated prostitution have had a great impact on the campus. From the educational system, colleges and universities lack sex education and guidance for students. Few colleges and universities offer sex education courses, and many colleges and universities only show freshmen a video about physical hygiene, and some even don't even have a video. The premarital sexual behavior and cohabitation behavior of college students cannot be simply judged by "right" and "wrong". As a fact, college students' cohabitation must be recognized by higher education, and it is irresponsible for college students to turn a deaf ear. There is no doubt that cohabitation is a violation of the current college rules. Almost all colleges and universities will punish students who live together illegally or have sexual relations until they are ordered to drop out. Not long ago, a couple in a university made love in the pavilion in the middle of the night and were caught by the school security guard. Both of them were expelled and stayed in school for half a year. But simple treatment can't solve the problem fundamentally. Some educators have pointed out that it is urgent for schools to strengthen the guidance and education of students' sexual concepts. Moreover, families and society should also take corresponding measures to help college students establish a correct concept of love and sex and ensure their healthy physical and mental growth.

neighbouring sounds

opposition

A girl: I absolutely disapprove of this kind of cohabitation that goes against the traditional ethics of China. If he doesn't want me, wouldn't it be miserable! B boy: I won't live together myself. As students, cohabitation will affect their studies more or less. Cohabitation is responsible and involves ethical and legal issues. (Note: A certain proportion of college students are against cohabitation, most of them are female students and more traditional boys. )

Pro-faction

What age are you now, still so conservative? I think when the first nude photo in China was published in the newspaper, it was also an uproar when it was first publicly exhibited. Now we say they are art B: The sexual repression of premarital sex is more terrible, so I think it is better to face up to physical or psychological needs than to suppress it. Moderate sex life (even before marriage) is beneficial. (There are fewer people who fully agree that college students live together.)

middle-of-the-roader

A: Cohabitation is a very complicated social problem. Cohabitation has its special reasons, conditions, opportunities, different social experiences and moral values. The cohabitation of college students should be analyzed in detail. I can't. I don't care what others do. C: I agree reluctantly, but only if the relationship between the two people develops to the point where they can talk about marriage. In short, we must consider life. (The opinions of most college students belong to this category, which shows that most college students are more tolerant of cohabitation and conditionally admit it, but they don't totally deny it or absolutely agree with it. ) An expert who has an in-depth study of traditional marriage in China: College students can't just live together from their own perspective. From the whole social environment, the reform and opening up has brought many civilizations, but also many new ideas, such as foreign garbage, such as sexual freedom and yellow culture. This will bring a strong shock wave to the campus; From the historical background, since the Song and Ming Dynasties, the social repression of sex has been very serious. For women, chastity is more important than life. In a sense, cohabitation shows the openness and progress of sexual concept. As far as the media is concerned, more and more reports and advertisements about sex, especially those obscene books and periodicals, and the uncontrollable pornography on the Internet, have caused negative guidance to college students. In addition, the popularity of good contraceptive tools and technologies today provides conditions and guarantees for cohabitation. But I'm against college students living together. After all, students focus on their studies, and living together will have a bad influence on students more or less. Moreover, it is hard to say that cohabitation will have a happy ending, which will inevitably bring different degrees of harm to both parties.