1, have a good talk with children
When children enter the park, they need to communicate with strangers in a strange environment. How to communicate becomes very important. At the same time, the psychological changes of children in unfamiliar environments are also the focus that parents need to pay attention to.
Talking well with children can not only help children develop good communication skills from an early age, but also make themselves the objects to talk to, close to their own hearts, and make it easier to understand their inner situation.
And how to talk to children?
Kneel down and reason with children, communicate with children on an equal footing, and let children experience respect and be respected;
Try to avoid yelling and scolding, which may solve temporary problems, but it will cause serious harm to children's psychological growth;
Learn to listen to children's expression, maybe they still can't say clearly, but parents' listening is the best recognition;
Create a harmonious language environment and try to avoid disputes in front of children;
2. study with children.
After children enter the park, the learning environment, learning content and learning methods are completely different from those in the family, but the same thing is that they all need children's autonomous learning ability and their concentration, and the cultivation of these abilities is not a one-off event, but a long-term project.
Many parents worry that their children are addicted to electronic products, but they ignore that their children are also "mobile phone controllers" and "computer addicts". In other words, children's interest and awareness in learning largely depends on the family environment.
And what kind of learning environment do children need?
Spend more time watching mobile TV and reading books, and children will naturally be curious about books and have the motivation to learn;
Draw a picture with your child, let the child recite an ancient poem by himself, and let the child feel the sense of accomplishment brought by knowledge;
Read a book carefully with your child at least once a day, and give your child the opportunity to choose his own book;
Change the learning process from "you teach me to learn" to "learn together" to reduce the pressure brought by rigid learning.
3. Let children participate in the process of homework.
About kindergarten homework, on the Internet, we have seen the fruit platter made by the chef uncle of a five-star hotel for children, all kinds of exquisite handmade and harmonious paintings. However, are these really homework that children should hand in?
For children, homework should be the demonstration of practical ability, the embodiment of imagination and creativity, the construction course of good parent-child relationship, and the important link between family and education.
How should children do their homework?
Be sure to let the children participate in the production process of homework themselves, instead of being a bystander;
Respect children's opinions, not adult thinking to limit children's imagination;
You should finish your homework on time, pay attention to whether your child has homework after class and make a good schedule;
4, appropriate "let go"
Some parents said: "Our children can do everything by themselves in kindergarten, but when they get home, they can't do anything and have to be fed." In fact, this is largely due to the excessive arrangement of parents in daily life.
Since entering kindergarten, children's demand for self-care ability has gradually emerged. Only by learning to "let go" children's growth properly can children learn to explore and grow.
What is "letting go"?
Do what you can, such as eating, sleeping and undressing.
Don't be afraid of children's "troubles", everything is from bad to good;
Learn to do simple housework, such as putting away toys, tidying up shops, cleaning tables after meals, etc.
5. Timely and appropriate communication
Communication is the most important part of family cooperative education. Through communication, parents can have a clear understanding of their children's situation in the park, and teachers can also get their children's after-school situation, so that parents and teachers can find the most suitable education method according to their actual situation.
At the same time, communication is also inseparable from the communication between parents and children, which can let parents know their children's psychological changes in time and increase their psychological dependence on themselves. Once the child has any psychological changes, parents can also guide him in time.
What is proper communication?
Communication must focus on the key points, rather than mastering everything in one hand;
Be sure to maintain an appropriate frequency, too frequent or too little is not appropriate, twice a week is appropriate;
Set up sharing time with children, which can be happy or unhappy, and understand the psychological changes of children;
Children's after-school situation should be promptly fed back to the teacher, so that the teacher can adjust the teaching methods.
6. Cultivate children's ability to live
In the process of children's growth, in addition to book knowledge and learning of various specialties, the cultivation of life ability is also particularly important, and these abilities will become an important guarantee for children to live independently in the future or need to solve problems independently.
Nowadays, many kindergarten courses have the cultivation of life ability, such as visiting the fire brigade and emergency drills for sudden disasters. But the cultivation of life ability also needs parents to continue in life.
What should we teach our children?
Take children to the market and let them know about vegetables and grains, rather than just staying at the book level;
Let the children remember 1 10, 1 19, 120. Police and doctors should not be the targets of intimidating children.
Teach children some common sense of life in an easy-to-understand way such as children's songs;