The Popular "Natural Parenting Law" in Korea
Korean parents began to pay attention to the natural parenting method, which focuses on returning children's life, education and games to nature and maximizing their children's growth in a natural state.
1, let children sleep alone since childhood.
No matter how old the child is, South Korea is used to letting the child sleep alone. This can not only enhance the intimacy between parents and children, but also be conducive to good health and cultivate children's independence from an early age.
2. Don't force children to play with mud and sand.
Whether children play with dirt, sand or water, it doesn't matter whether they are dirty or not as long as they have fun. The doctor also suggested that making children dirty properly is not only good for their mood, but also can improve their resistance. It is beneficial for them to fight bacteria and viruses and prevent various diseases.
3. Breastfeeding, using cloth as a diaper.
Breastfeeding is a natural and glorious thing in Korea.
More and more parents use cloth to make diapers. Although it will be a little troublesome to make diapers and feed with cloth, it is good for children.
4. Don't let children take medicine casually.
90% of children's diseases are caused by viruses, so even if they don't take medicine, they will recover naturally after a while. This can also prevent other adverse reactions caused by drugs.
Some parents are upset because their children eat less. In fact, children need a certain amount. We should not only pursue quantity, but also pay attention to quality. Even if you eat less, as long as you have all kinds of nutritional values of your body.
5. Let the children grow up slowly
Parents need to wait until their children want to learn. If they find that their children are curious about something, they can encourage them to do it, which will make them grow up faster.
6. Encourage children to take part in adventure activities
Encouraging children to do some meaningful adventure activities can cultivate and exercise their strong will and brave spirit.
7. Cultivate sentiment in nature
Only nature is the richest and most comprehensive textbook for educating children. Nature can broaden children's horizons and enrich their knowledge. Let children learn to analyze and compare things slowly, and find out the relationship between different things, thus enlightening wisdom.
Japan: controlling emotions in public places
In public, compared with the freedom, liveliness and innocence of China children, Japanese children are silent and honest. The reporter noticed that Japanese children don't walk back and forth by bus, and they don't cry loudly and make noise when eating in restaurants. Sometimes some children obviously robbed other people's toys, and the other parents would come up to apologize and let the children share the toys with their own children. In fact, children's minds are similar, the difference is family education.
Japanese families educate their children to be "different inside and outside", that is, families and public places should be treated differently. In the family, children can let go completely, because they are surrounded by parents and other relatives who can accept you, while public places are surrounded by "others" and have no obligation to accept all your performances. Therefore, we must restrain and control our words and deeds and show the good side, so as not to bring trouble and disgust to others. This is the basic theory that Japanese parents educate their children in public.
Japanese parents will also teach their children how to behave well in public, and teachers will also teach their children manners and rules. Generally, the parents of middle-class Japanese with good quality will let their children control their emotions: whether they are happy or sad, don't vent their emotions on any occasion, let alone shout loudly. After children can control their emotions, Japanese parents will teach them how to talk and get along with others. Including trying to stand in the other party's position and say things that make the other party feel relieved, without expressing their true thoughts; If you don't agree, you don't have to say what you really think directly. Instead, we should keep a low profile for the time being and avoid further opposition, but we should keep our own ideas and express our views to each other when conditions are ripe.
USA: There are 30 rules for school buses.
America is a free country, but that doesn't mean that children can ignore the rules. Take taking the school bus as an example, students need to abide by as many as 30 rules. According to the statistics of the US Department of Transportation, 54% of primary school students take the school bus every day. At present, there are 440,000 school buses shuttling between residential areas and schools in the United States, transporting 25 million primary and secondary school students every day. A year later, the number of primary and secondary school students transported by these school buses reached 654.38+0 billion.
Before the start of each semester, the school will make statistics on the students who need to take the school bus and publish the rules and regulations for parents and children to take the school bus, including: before the school bus comes, they must queue up at the designated place five minutes in advance; When the school bus approaches, it must stand at least 6 feet away from the roadside, and the queue cannot extend to the street; You must wait before the school bus stops. You can only get on the bus when the car stops, the door opens and the driver says you can get on. If you want to bypass the front of the car, you need to keep a distance of 10 feet from the school bus and make sure that you and the driver are within sight of each other. It is forbidden to pass through the rear of the car; If a student's things fall near the school bus, tell the driver to help him pick them up. It is forbidden to pick up and drop off students without permission, so as to avoid the tragedy that drivers can't see students. ...
Most children can abide by the above strict rules, but a few children can't. Because it involves the safety of students, the teacher will first give him a serious education, let him understand the importance of obeying the rules, and then inform parents to educate together. Students who refuse to turn over a new leaf may be banned from taking the school bus.
Thomas and Armstrong, American children education scholars, pointed out that free play is more beneficial to the health of preschool children than planned activities. Parents should avoid filling their children's time with various activities. All children need some free and casual play time.
Teach him to care about others.
Happy children need to feel that they have some meaningful connections with others and understand what he means to others. To cultivate this feeling, you can help your child to get in touch with others more. You can sort out some old toys with your child and donate them to charity with him to help homeless children. Children can also be encouraged to participate in some volunteer activities at school. Experts point out that even at a very young age, you can get happiness from helping others. And form the habit of helping others.
Encourage him to exercise more.
Playing ball games, cycling, swimming with your child ... Doing more exercise can not only exercise your child's physical fitness, but also make him more cheerful. Maintaining a vibrant life can moderately relieve children's stress and emotions, make children like themselves, have a more positive body image, and find fun and a sense of accomplishment from sports.
Keep grinning
Telling jokes, making up some funny songs and laughing with children are good for you and your children. Just laughing is good exercise.
Creative praise
When children behave well, don't just say yes. Be specific, tell the details, and point out the places that are impressive or better than last time. For example, it is really polite for you to say good morning to the doorman's uncle today. However, we should also pay attention to praise and not develop children's false expectations. Some parents will reward their children with gifts or money, so that their children can focus on what rewards they can get, rather than doing well. Parents should let their children discover the satisfaction and sense of accomplishment brought by completing a thing, instead of rewarding him with material rewards.
Ensure that children eat healthily.
Music Education in Russia
Educate future generations with art from childhood.
The new generation of "Russian Music Culture" textbook (music for short) is a relatively comprehensive music textbook in Russia, which is used for music classes in ordinary schools 1-9 grades. It is based on the theories of folk music, religious music, classical music, modern music and basic music, as well as a wide range of music culture. In Russia, the full name of music class is Russian music culture. Through teaching materials, students can understand Russian folk culture and world music culture, modern and classical music classics, and measure the relationship between culture and history and its unique personality.
Russian families generally attach importance to cultivating children's artistic interests and hobbies, seize the opportunity to cultivate children's artistic sensibility and appreciation ability, and let children be influenced by art from an early age. The favorite place for Russians to go is the theater. Parents often take their children with them, and the whole family goes to the theatre with great interest. In the two chapters of "In the Concert" and "In the Concert Hall" in the lower grades of "Music", children are introduced to various music genres and some classic works. For example, in the chapter of "In the Music Theatre", primary school students are guided to play roles in musical fairy tales, opera Peter and Wolf, Tchaikovsky's ballet Sleeping Beauty and Prokoph's Cinderella. In the chapter "Concert", we should learn as many classical works of chamber music and symphony as possible, such as Chopin Polonaise, Waltz and Beethoven Sonata. Children have listened to many world-famous symphonic music since childhood, and feel the charm of many works of art. Without the teacher's repeated emphasis in class, they have improved their artistic accomplishment in a subtle way. Visiting art museums is also one of the hobbies of Russians. In front of the works of art in the museum, young parents patiently pointed out and explained to their children. On weekends and holidays, parents often take their children to parks and suburbs to feel the beauty of nature, which helps to observe and feel the beauty of the surrounding world as one of the main sources to understand and experience the happiness and beauty of real life, and to use the beauty of nature as a means of emotional education and aesthetic education. This practice of edifying future generations with art from an early age has undoubtedly provided a steady stream of artistic tension for the inheritance and development of civilization in music countries.
Music Art Education in Japan
Creation in interaction
Japanese pop art can draw lessons from Japanese art education. For example, in the art appreciation class of a middle school in Japan, the teacher asked the students to draw a picture first, depicting a stream, opposite a church, and the sun shone on the stream through the mist, sparkling. Then the students discussed in groups and came to the conclusion that fog and waves can be represented by the vibrato of the violin in the high-pitched area and the church can be represented by the chorus of hymns. Students try to play at random according to these feelings and tips. Teachers cultivate students' innovative ability in interactive induction teaching.