Legend has it that one night, an old Zen master was walking in the temple and saw a chair by the courtyard wall. He immediately understood that a monk who climbed over the wall violated the rules of the temple. The old Zen master didn't say a word, quietly walked to the wall, moved the chair and squatted down on the spot. In less than half an hour, I really heard something outside the wall. After a while, a young monk climbed over the wall and jumped into the yard on the back of the old Zen master in the dark. When his foot touched the ground, he realized that it was not the chair he had just stepped on, but his master. The young monk suddenly panicked and was tongue-tied, so he had to stand where he was and wait for Master's punishment. To the little monk's surprise, the master did not sharply scold him, but said in a calm tone, "It's cold at night, so you should put on more clothes."
2. Strength of personality: Mr. Zhang Boling set an example to quit smoking.
Zhang Boling, a famous educator in China, founded Nankai University, Nankai Girls' Middle School and Nankai Primary School after 19 19. He attaches great importance to the education of students' manners and manners and sets an example. Once, he found that a student's fingers were yellow by smoke, so he seriously advised the student: "Smoking is harmful to health, give it up." Unexpectedly, the student was a little unconvinced and quipped, "Is it harmful for you to smoke?" Zhang Boling smiled apologetically at the students' censure and immediately called on the workers to take away all Luzon cigarettes and destroy them in public. He also broke his beloved pipe that had been used for many years and sincerely said, "From then on, I quit smoking with all my classmates." Sure enough, he never smoked again after that.
3. The Power of Tolerance: Mr. Tao Xingzhi's Four Candies
When Mr. Tao Xingzhi was the principal, one day he saw a boy hitting his classmate with a brick, so he stopped him and told him to go to the principal's office. When President Tao returned to the office, the boy was already waiting there. Tao Xingzhi took out a candy for this classmate: "This is a reward for you, because you got to the office before me." Then he took out another candy and said, "This is for you, too. I won't let you hit your classmates. You stopped it right away, which shows that you respect me. " The boy took the second candy in doubt, and Mr. Tao added, "As far as I know, you beat your classmate because he bullied girls, which shows that you have a sense of justice. I will reward you with another candy. " At this time, the boy was moved to tears and said, "Principal, I was wrong. If my classmates are wrong again, I can't take this approach. " Mr. Tao then took out another candy: "You have admitted your mistake, and I will reward you with another piece." My candy came out and our conversation was over. "