At 9: 00 pm on May 2, 2020, Raoyang Police Station in Raoping County informed Shuo Yang's parents that Shuo Yang died of carbon monoxide poisoning in the Great Wall Hotel in Raoyang Town. According to a preliminary investigation by the police, Yang Shuo sealed the doors and windows of the hotel room with tape on the evening of May 20, and then lit the charcoal stove bought in the supermarket.
2 1 Late at night, Shuo Yang's family rushed to Raoping and saw the relics: a mobile phone, a tablet computer and a suicide note to his girlfriend Su Xing, which read:? Lead you to the right path in your life. ?
The man I know would never commit suicide. ? A friend of Shuo Yang said. In the oral accounts of relatives and friends, Shuo Yang was once an outgoing and cheerful boy. 20 17 After retiring from the army, Shuo Yang went to Guangdong to work in medicine and finance, and his career was smooth.
After reading Shuo Yang's WeChat chat records before his death, his family members thought that at least two people had something to do with Shuo Yang's transformation: one was his girlfriend Su Xing, and the other was an emotional counselor? Doll? .
Family members believe that Su Xing was suspected of mind control and money fraud during his contact with Shuo Yang, which eventually led to Shuo Yang's mental breakdown and suicide. And then what? Doll? Not qualified to recommend prescription antidepressants for Shuo Yang. Based on these two points, Shuo Yang's family reported the case to Raoyang police station. The reporter called the police in charge of the case, and the other party said that it was impossible to disclose the specific case.
We think that Yang Shuo is the PUA written by Su Xing. ? The family said. PUA(Pick-up Artist) was introduced from abroad in recent years, which generally refers to the psychological control of one party to the other through deception, threats and other means in intimate relationships.
With the permission of his family, the reporter consulted Shuo Yang's WeChat chat records to learn about his last life track.
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The conflict broke out on the afternoon of May 20th.
Is this a fact? ? At 2pm that day, in a screenshot of a chat sent by Shuo Yang to Su Xing, what was the nickname? Unknown? The man who claimed to be Su Xing's boyfriend asked Shuo Yang? Stay away from your girlfriend? .
Yes, he is my boyfriend. ? Su Xing answered quickly and told Yang Shuo at the same time? We're not together? .
Since the beginning of May, Yang Shuo has spent most of his time in Raoyang Town, where Su Xing is located, and its surrounding areas. On May 3rd, he and his girlfriend met briefly in a hotel in the town. Su Xing has been with him ever since. Study? Reason, refused to meet.
In the early morning of 20th, Shuo Yang burst into tears in the voice message, asking to meet Su Xing again, and agreed? Just take a look and leave, just asking for the truth? .
Get out of here and don't come back. ? Su Xing replied.
Yang Shuo asked for it? The truth? Right? Third party? Doubt. In the past chat, Shuo Yang complained many times that Su Xing had a deep relationship with other boys and even went on a trip together. According to the photos provided by the family, this nickname? Unknown? A man once had a close photo with Su Xing in the hotel. The police told the family, unknown? Liu, a native of Raoyang Town, claimed to be the suitor of Su Xing.
The quarrel between the two lasted from the afternoon until 7 pm. From Yang Shuo's later words and voices to Su Xing, they all expressed the idea of suicide. Yang Shuo said? Don't come to the hotel to save me, I want to die and no one can stop me? Su Xing replied? Afraid you'll die in a hotel run by my relatives? .
You died with Polly. ? Su Xing said. Paulie is a bag cat that they have together. In their last few chats, Su Xing hoped that Shuo Yang could kill Paulie or pay lifelong support.
Su Xing said to Yang Shuo. You died with Polly. ?
Let Polly stay at your house until tomorrow morning. ? At 7: 45 pm, Yang Shuo is going to burn charcoal.
The reporter asked Su Xing about May 20th, and she said that she just wanted to break up with Shuo Yang as soon as possible. Because his entanglement scares me? , but did not respond to specific details.
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At the end of 20 18, Shuo Yang met Su Xing, who is 6 years younger than himself, in a bar, and they soon established a love relationship.
Judging from the photos, she is a very beautiful girl. ? Shuo Yang's relatives in Shenzhen have never seen Su Xing, but only know that Shuo Yang is generous. She once bought two tickets for 8,000 yuan, accompanied Su Xing to watch the concert of idol Lu Han, and also sent Cartier watches, Gucci bags and other luxury goods.
Shuo Yang and Su Xing's WeChat chats can only be traced back to February 28th this year. Judging from the existing content, the couple didn't have any ambiguity in the last few months, more like the mandatory maintenance of WeChat transfer? Love? .
If it doesn't arrive before 12, it will be blacked out. ? On the evening of March 3 1, Su Xing sent a long message in Yangshuo asking for forgiveness and then gave a simple reply.
In their relationship, it is necessary for Shuo Yang to transfer 666 yuan to Su Xing every day? Promise? If Shuo Yang can't finish the target on time, will it suffer? Ignore? Punishment. ? Please turn around quickly, I can't stand it. ? Yang Shuo once begged Su Xing to collect money as soon as possible.
Frequent transfers did not improve Shuo Yang's position in feelings. In the chat record, it is normal for Shuo Yang to send messages on his own initiative, while Su Xing's brief response to Shuo Yang? Stupid? No brains? Incompetence? Appear from time to time.
The way you cry is really ugly; I hate your humble appearance. ? After a quarrel, Su Xing told Shuo Yang, but she accepted all the red envelopes she sent.
The bill inquired by family members shows that from 20 18 to now, Shuo Yang has transferred more than 200,000 yuan to Su Xing, not including the gift expenses.
I love your way, not just transferring money. ? Yang Shuo complained to Su Xing on April 27th.
Su Xing:? All you have to do is make money unconditionally. ?
You can only transfer money. ? Su Xing also told Shuo Yang that the only thing he had to do was to make money unconditionally.
Before Yang Shuo's death, the economic situation was already quite difficult. Family members reported that they received a small loan call about Shuo Yang last year, and the debt of family members alone was more than 200,000 yuan. In addition, Shuo Yang also borrowed money from friends and classmates everywhere. However, until a few days before his death, he never stopped transferring money to Su Xing.
Did Yang Shuo meet PUA? Kong Weiwei, a social worker who has been engaged in PUA research for a long time, told reporters that the specific situation of PUA behavior is relatively regular. Generally speaking? Curious? Exploring? Fascinated? Destroy? Emotional abuse? Is it the most common in PUA? The five-step trap is to make the other person's feelings collapse and lose their rationality through psychological control.
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It's not the first time that Yang Shuo wants to die.
Su Xing said that she and Shuo Yang broke up briefly in June 5438+February last year, when Shuo Yang was going to cut her wrists and jump off a building. ? He (Shuo Yang) told me that he was depressed and needed to take medicine frequently. ? Su Xing said.
Among the relics left by Yang Shuo in Shenzhen, there is also unopened paroxetine.
Since the middle of 20 19, the relationship between Shuo Yang and Su Xing has been cracked. Under the introduction of friends, all his WeChat friends have nicknames? Doll? Emotional counselor.
Family and? Doll? I learned from the phone that Shuo Yang was trying to save Su Xingcai and? Doll? Contact. Payment records show that Shuo Yang paid a total of? Doll? Paid a fee of 10000 yuan, charged at the price of 499 yuan per hour.
After consulting the chat records, the reporter found that Shuo Yang frequently asked? Doll? Referring to the treatment of depression, he claimed that he was taking drugs, and if he didn't take drugs, he would have a serious withdrawal reaction. ? Doll? Without seeing the relevant medical records, I recommended several psychotropic drugs to Yang Shuo and told him to take them.
I have also treated many patients with depression. They take drugs together with psychotherapy, and they often ask the doctor's friends for help. ? 2019 65438+February 5,? Doll? Send Yang Shuo a picture with zolpidem tartrate tablets and escitalopram oxalate (the former is used to treat sleep disorders, and the latter is an antidepressant), and tell Shuo Yang what these drugs are? Side effects? It's getting smaller
Nausea and vomiting. ? 20 19 12.4, Shuo Yang once said? Doll? Tells the reaction after taking drugs. ? Doll? Shuo Yang was warned not to drink when he was taking drugs, but he still played dice and drank with him on WeChat in the follow-up chat.
The reporter found out? Doll? Both recommended drugs are prescription drugs, and the instruction manual of escitalopram oxalate clearly states that this drug may increase the risk of suicide if taken improperly.
It is understood that? Doll? Currently working in Guangzhou Zhenxing Information Consulting Co., Ltd., the qualification certificate she provided to the police is the certificate of registered international psychological consultant. The reporter learned from professionals that the certificate has not been recognized by the state and cannot be used for the practice of psychological counselors, let alone for the prescription of psychotropic drugs.
Does the family think so? Doll? Suspected of illegal medical practice. The reporter called to ask why the doll recommended drugs to Yang Shuo, but the other party failed to respond positively.
At present, family members can't find the case records of depression in Shuo Yang.
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Shuo Yang's last day was spent chatting.
After quarreling with Su Xing, he asked local netizens on WeChat where there was charcoal to sell. Then he went out for a long trip and bought a charcoal stove for barbecue from the supermarket in Xingfeng next door.
I never thought that he would end his life. ? Shuo Yang's mother said that in her eyes, her son was an optimistic and cheerful big boy since childhood, so that in the video surveillance of Shuo Yang's last walk into the gate of the Great Wall Hotel, she thought his expression was still the same. Are you happy? Yes
Sister, emotionally speaking, I think you are right. ? At 3pm on 20th, Shuo Yang sent a WeChat to her cousin who had not been in contact for a long time. ? Everyone else can see that only you are self-centered, which is silly. ? My cousin persuaded him.
On this day, Shuo Yang also received news from his mother and uncle. Mom advised him not to chase? That girl? My uncle, who is doing medicine business in Jiangmen, gave him a sum of money to go back to Jiangmen and work with him.
For the words of the elders, Yang Shuo only gave a vague answer. In the last few hours, he sent the message to someone he hadn't contacted for a long time. Doll? . ? Can you help me choose a happy and painless way to die? ? At 4 o'clock in the afternoon, Shuo Yang asked? Doll? Then he added:? Burning charcoal. ?
Doll? Say: if you continue to escape and continue to be yourself, I really can't help you ?
It's 7 o'clock in the evening.
From Shuo Yang? Doll? Photo of yourself building a charcoal stove in the bathroom:? Teacher, can you accompany me to the last journey of my life? ?
Doll? Say: Yes, can you wait for the teacher? ? The wait lasted 1 several hours.
Shuo Yang moved in with a relationship counselor? Doll? Last call.
From 8: 42 pm to 9: 52 pm on May 20th, Shuo Yang played in seven directions? Doll? Call wechat. According to the information provided by the police to his family, Shuo Yang did have a relationship with? Doll? There was a phone call of 19 minutes, and I gave my last words: Let my family not pursue Su Xing.
The reporter asked? Doll? The specific content of the phone call and why she didn't choose to call the police, she said it was not convenient to disclose. The reporter asked? Doll? The heads of the parent companies Guangzhou Xunxing Information Consulting Co., Ltd. and Guangzhou Huazhen Education Consulting Co., Ltd. said? Doll? For the pause, but he added, doll? When providing emotional counseling to Yang Shuo, he did not work in the company, and Shuo Yang was not a customer of the company.
Except? Doll? Shuo Yang also revealed the idea of suicide to one of his friends that night. After repeated calls to WeChat failed to connect, a friend who didn't know Shuo Yang's location called the local Shandong Public Security Bureau.
I already called the police, so wait. ? He tried to keep in touch with Shuo Yang, but after 9: 52 pm, Shuo Yang's phone was never connected.