The ultimate goal of education is to let every child get a happy life, that is, to let children live a "healthy body, carefree life and happy spirit" life as a whole.

So, how can we give our children a happy life?

Find the source of a happy life and attach importance to the construction of children's spiritual home.

A happy life is a result, not a drop from the sky. We should find its source. When looking for the root cause of the problem, there will be such a process: the fruit is borne by flowers, while the flowers bloom on the branches and the branches grow on the branches. This has been pushed back until the "root" of the plant is finally found. Therefore, to solve the problem, we must find the "root" of the problem. In fact, "root and root" are still two problems. "Root is root, this is foundation", and "foundation" is far more important than "root". The "root" is the root system, which determines whether a tree can stand on the root, absorb nutrients smoothly and grow healthily. "Ben" is a seed, which determines whether it can take root and sprout and bear any fruit. Continue to explore and study where the seeds are planted, which is the problem of the earth. The earth is the dependence, foundation and starting point of everything. Without the earth, everything is empty talk.

A happy life also has a problem of the earth. The earth is the child's "heart", that is, the child's "spiritual earth". This is why we should first understand the relationship between seeds and the earth, because this is the source of all problems. The "land of the soul" is formed by the stimulation of information such as what children see and hear in their daily lives. Try to expose children to beautiful things and ensure that children have a positive nutrition. A happy life is the fruit of the seeds of "responsibility, confidence, love" and "three hearts" "Responsibility" means that children should have an idea of what they want to do and what they must do well. There is no room for discussion. Everyone should be responsible for himself and "take responsibility". "Self-confidence" means that children should have a heart. As long as I want to do something, I can do it well, make up my mind and do it again and again. "Love" means that everyone loves himself. We know that if we want to realize self-love, we must learn to give and love others, so that we can truly understand the truth of self-love.

Sowing the seeds of a happy life, the general principle is to follow the trend step by step.

The reasons for these three stories

Thinking with the truth, we can understand that everything has a process of "knowing, doing and getting", which goes through three steps of "learning, learning and learning". To achieve the accumulation of quantity.

Secondly, parents should deeply understand and realize that "sowing a behavior, harvesting a habit: sowing a habit, harvesting a character: sowing a character, harvesting a fate", and understand that children must have a good personality if they want to have a good fate. To have a good character, you must have good habits and realize the essence.

Third, carefully care for the seed growth of a happy life and ensure that it takes root, grows, civilizes and bears fruit normally. Take good care of the seeds of a happy life. The general principle of healthy growth is to be persuasive.

Persuasion has two meanings: first, it can be induced, and second, it can be induced in the direction of goodwill.

First of all, parents should have a sense of "family law, national law, natural law" and "three laws". They should try their best to let their children be bound by benign family laws from an early age and form good habits. They should not let their children break the law after moral problems and be punished by national laws, or be punished by natural laws because of excessive indulgence and unrestrained behavior. Have an understanding of cultivating habits. Habit is formed through repeated practice of behavior, and it is not easy to cultivate a habit. Once a habit is formed, it is not easy to correct it, and it can be used to cultivate good habits. When children are young, they can cultivate basic habits with goals and objectives, and constantly change to a higher level of character and destiny until they finally decide that children have a good destiny.

Secondly, parents should have the concept of "three studies" in their hearts. "Three sciences" refers to natural science, theoretical science and applied science, and the process of raising children must meet the requirements of science.

We know that among all the sciences, the science that can make people firmly trust is the simplest natural science like "as you sow, so you reap". People should realize that the formation of people's thoughts is an extremely complex system, which should be carried out in strict accordance with the procedural requirements of the system. They should not take it for granted that they can look up at the sky for no reason, look for reasons, expect their children to become talents themselves, and firmly believe that there is no accident in the world and everything is inevitable.

Parents should know that education is only a stage of long-term preparation for a happy life. Parents should sum up their own lives, prevent their children from going astray, pass on their wisdom to their children as soon as possible, and let them get a happy life as soon as possible.