First of all, you should really understand, respect and trust your children. When you see some changes or abnormal behaviors of your child, you don't have to shout, let alone scold or scold, otherwise it will aggravate your child's rebellious psychology and aggravate the gap between parents and children.

Second, we should respect children's independence, give them certain independent rights, and talk to them in an equal way. Even if the child is stubborn, don't use orders or reprimands. Rudeness and coercion will only make children more rebellious.

Third, be children's intimate friends and truly understand their inner world. Only when children feel the care, respect and understanding of their parents will they be regarded as the most trustworthy people, and their feelings will be truly communicated. In this state, children are more likely to receive education and guidance.

Children need respect, long for independence, and hope that parents will treat themselves as adults. Because they are not mature psychologically, they still hope to get teachers' spiritual understanding, support and protection when facing many complicated contradictions and puzzles. Therefore, parents should change their roles, try to make friends with their children, listen to their thoughts, communicate calmly, and give them an appropriate space for free growth. Only in this way can children successfully pass adolescence and enjoy a harmonious parent-child relationship.