As new parents, we should accept and admit our imperfections as parents. We may not be the "best" parents by nature, but we can be the "best" parents.
We often say "teach children to be human beings" and hope to plan the "best" life for children, but only by clarifying the "best" life direction can we really know how to train children. Everything the child says and does is like us. We should not just correct our children. Correcting ourselves is helping our children. Cultivating children is also a process of growing up with children.
Therefore, we should make more efforts in body and mind, constantly cultivate wisdom, broaden the pattern of life and enhance the interest of life. When we become the "best" ourselves, we can set a good example for our children.
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2. Don't be moody.
Parents should understand that children are not your vent bucket or your pistachio. You can't praise him if you are unhappy, but give him an ugly face if you are unhappy. As experienced people, parents should try to be gentle and firm in everything and avoid being moody. If you are moody and your attitude towards your children is entirely for your own emotional venting, it is too wrong.
If you are really angry, the best way is to go out for a while, breathe the fresh air outside, and you will be fine when you come back. Of course, children sometimes have emotions and need to vent. Let him cry if he wants to, and he can't be forbidden to cry. It is ok to vent, otherwise the more you suppress him, the more counterproductive the result will be.
3. Create a good family atmosphere
In fact, the best family education is based on the love and care of parents. Parents are the chief tutors of children's growth, and their attitudes and behaviors have a vital influence on their growth. Therefore, parents should always pay attention to their children's emotional needs, care about their physical and mental health, and create a warm and harmonious family atmosphere. In this way, children can thrive in a loving and warm environment.