First, stick to your own principles and never be influenced by them, and always do a good job of "what you say is not necessarily useful to me, I will listen to what I can, and I will not accept what I don't listen to";
Second, you'd better go. I cannot change you. Can't I go? Being away from your emotional harassment is the greatest protection for yourself.
Perhaps this statement will seem a bit extreme, but from the facts, the result can only be like this.
Because he loves to preach and reason, which proves that he has a strong desire for control. He won't listen to anyone's advice. He only thinks his point of view is right, and never allows others to disagree with his point of view or idea.
You might as well go to do this!
I hope my point of view can help you!