In the face of children's test scores, parents' mentality is very important. We can't be grumpy and angry just because our children's grades are not satisfactory, which is of no help. When children's grades are not ideal, they need parents' acceptance and tolerance more psychologically; You can't take a child to heaven and do whatever you want just because his grades are excellent. The purpose of the examination is not to distinguish good students from poor students, but to let children and teachers know together how students master the content of this subject and what aspects need to be strengthened. So what should parents do when the results come out?

For students with unsatisfactory grades, parents' reprimand, sarcasm and even scolding can't solve any problems. We can analyze the wrong questions in the test paper with our children and find out which knowledge points the children have not mastered enough. After further consolidation, you can do the wrong questions again, or find the same type of questions and take the exam again. The key point is to check and fill the gaps and master them flexibly. We should see children's efforts and progress for good grades. Although grades are important, children's progress can not be ignored.

As educators or parents, we should understand that "education is growth" education is to cultivate what children are good at. Therefore, the traditional barrel theory is a successful theory. Excessive pursuit of making up for defects will violate the law of children's growth and will inevitably lead to their distress. Therefore, if the child's grades are average, maybe he has incomparable advantages in other aspects. When God closes a door for people, he opens a window for them.

How good is it? Then it is necessary to cultivate children's existing developmental ability. It can be cultivated from three aspects: knowledge, emotion and morality. Knowledge is the ability to think independently. Nowadays, education often lacks this content. Our children have their own ideas when they enter the door, and they are single-minded when they come out. This is terrible. Don't look at grades, look at whether children have their own independent thinking ability. Love is to have a rich mind. Can feel the things around, can feel the sense of development. If he maintains a rich perception and understanding of nature, life and life, then don't care too much about his achievements. Virtue means having a kind and noble soul. If a child has a kind and noble soul, is it still important to get grades? Is not the most important thing.

What parents can do is to accompany their children to grow up happily and healthily, and achievements are only signposts on the road to growth, guiding children to find their own direction in life. Parents' love for their children should not be based on their children's achievements.