Reflection on educational methods
As parents, we need to deeply reflect on our education methods. Is it too spoiled or treated differently in the process of raising? Have you lost the balance between ideal and reality? These problems may be the driving force behind children's behavior. Drawing lessons from the past is to better guide your future.
Understand children
Understanding children is the key. They have their own judgments and choices, and we can't completely control them. But we can try to understand their environment and stage, communicate with them deeply, and really understand their needs and ideas. Moderate guidance, not coercion, can help them grow.
A firm bottom line
In the face of children's bad behavior, we must firm the bottom line. We can't condone it, we must give necessary punishment and stop it. Let them know that some behaviors are absolutely intolerable.
Express one's feelings sincerely
It is very important to express your feelings sincerely. Tell children how much their actions hurt their parents. With real emotions, awaken their conscience and urge them to reflect and change.
Action effort
Finally, efforts in action can better prove our love. In times of difficulty, give them greater support and show our unconditional concern. This may discover children's conscience and change their attitude.