A 90-year-old Shanghai parent has a daughter who likes to dawdle. Muddle around at school every day, and I'm basically the last one to go to school. Mom, in order to cure the child's problem. Deliberately delayed going out, I didn't expect my daughter to watch it any longer, and she cried, demanding to be slower and faster.

A daughter's nature is not procrastination. Children who know that they are anxious and will be anxious will definitely change in the future. Knowing how to put themselves in others' shoes will definitely not be too bad in the future.

Every family has a difficult experience, and every family has a difficult experience. Muddle away or don't like studying. On the road of education, we have all suffered too much.

A post-90s parent in Shanghai used a special educational method to make her daughter yield.

My daughter is always muddling along at school. Parents see it in their eyes and are anxious in their hearts. But looking at the state, my daughter is not in a hurry, so my mother decided to educate her daughter in the way of her daughter.

At school the next day, my mother deliberately dawdled and deliberately put on her clothes and took them off several times when she went out. The daughter couldn't stand it any longer, called her mother to hurry up, and then she cried.

Daughter can cry, which shows that she wants to be quick, but she doesn't really like fooling around. If other children, parents dawdle, maybe he will go to play for a while, there is no hurry. The daughter will cry, which means that she is very anxious, and the anxious child will change in the future.

I've tried it, but the children at home have no idea of time at all. Don't worry at all. It doesn't matter if you are late for class. You will be an old hand. She does her homework until the wee hours every day and just sits there. She won't write if you don't hurry up.

Shanghai, a post-90 s mother, knows how to worry about her children and will change in the future. Children like us are in no hurry. If parents use this method, children may go to school and tell their teachers that they are late because their mother is too procrastinating.

We have heard stories about pulling out seedlings to encourage them, and sometimes we urge children to grow up in education. This is also against the laws of nature. Children like to be lazy and need our guidance. Some parents are impatient, and beating and cursing directly will often get the opposite result.

Educating children must not be rushed. Parents should learn to put themselves in their children's shoes. Children's minds are not mature enough to think from the perspective of adults. It is useless to simply urge them, and special methods are needed to guide them. This Shanghai mother is really smart.

Life is like a chess game, everyone is playing against himself. If you don't understand empathy, life will be very difficult.

Once upon a time, a man invited a friend of the blind man to dinner. On his way home after dinner, his friend lit a lantern for the blind. The blind man was very angry and thought his friend was laughing at himself.

A friend told him: Because you can't see, I'll give you some lanterns so that when you leave at night, others can see you and won't bump into you.

The blind man was very moved.

Looking at the same thing from different angles, there will be different views, and different views will lead to different lives.

Shanghai, a post-90 s mother, made her children understand a truth through empathy. When the child is mature, she will follow her mother's example. A life that understands empathy is not too bad.

After the video was exposed, countless parents agreed, thinking that the post-90 s parents were too tall and eager to give their children a try.

Of course, the same method has different effects on different children. Don't copy mechanically, or make corresponding strategies according to children's characteristics, otherwise it will be counterproductive. For example, some children, parents dawdle, he dawdle more.

Most of the reasons for children's procrastination are that their parents will not let them be late. In their hearts, parents are safe havens and they will not be wronged. Everything is handled with the help of parents.

This mother's practice is also to cultivate children's concept of time, which is commendable. Life will be full of sunshine if every parent stays away from the education of beating and cursing.

If everyone can put themselves in others' shoes, they will have different ideas. Sometimes, if you change your way of thinking a little, life will bloom in different colors.