1, create a friendly environment and let children and partners have friendship.
Many children like to associate with their peers. Parents should encourage their children to make more friends, take them to relatives, neighbors and colleagues' homes, and let them play games with their peers. You can also invite your friends to your home. Parents can provide a playground at home, buy books and toys, and organize them to play games and activities together. If conditions permit, children should be allowed to enter kindergarten early and get to know more partners. Children have friends, play games together, have fun together, are attached to each other and have close relationships, thus building a bridge of friendship.
2. Standardize children's behaviors, make their partners like to associate with them, get along well and keep friendship.
Children tend to be self-centered, put themselves in other people's shoes, and often "hit a wall" when interacting with their peers. Go to the neighbor's house to play, talk rudely, don't listen to the neighbor's adult, rummage through the drawers, which causes resentment among peers and doesn't want to associate. It is necessary to standardize children's behavior, correct bad habits, tell children what to do and what not to do when they meet, conduct training and guidance, develop good behavior habits, and form a lively and cheerful personality. In this way, he will be welcomed by his partners.
3. Guide and educate children to cherish and develop friendship.
It is inevitable that children will quarrel together, even if they are good friends. When there is a quarrel between children, adults should keep a calm attitude, don't put an end to the communication between children on this ground, take persuasion to ease it, and never protect one side; Help children find reasons from themselves. If the child is wrong, take the initiative to apologize and encourage the child to make up with his partner. It is also necessary to educate children to care more about helping their partners and remind them to take the initiative to care about visiting their partners when they are sick. Let children share their favorite things with their peers. Teach children to respect and understand their partners, and don't be afraid of losing in communication. You can also encourage children to do meaningful gift activities, draw beautiful pictures, make toys for good friends and develop friendship between children.
4. Pay attention to the friendship between children and encourage children's good friends to come home as guests.
Parents should sincerely welcome their little guests and usually ask their children, "How did you play with your good friends today?" When you find that your child has made progress, you should encourage and praise him in time. Children share delicious food with friends, give books to their partners, and say, you are such a good boy to care about children! Parents' attention, praise and encouragement will greatly stimulate children's desire to live in harmony with their peers for a long time and urge them to cherish and consolidate their friendship.