shut up

Sometimes when parents are educating their children, children will occasionally quarrel. In the eyes of parents, children's quarrels are a provocation and disobedience to their authority. You tell the children to shut up, whether they are right or not.

If I say no, I can't.

The child is going to do something, but when he asks your permission, you don't even bother to explain. Children will feel that they have no status at home and plant the seeds of inferiority.

What's wrong again? That's stupid.

When you see a child make a mistake in what he has done, you will think that the child has a poor memory and is too stupid to scold. This will only hurt children's self-confidence and self-esteem.

5. See how powerful XX is.

Parents always think their children are the most perfect. When they see what other children do well, they can't help but compare their own children, and some children will be criticized for it. Children will feel useless after listening to it, and it will also hurt their self-confidence.

6. Forget it, suit yourself.

Some parents quarrel with their children and may end up angry and disappointed. They say to their children in an angry tone, "Forget it, whatever!" However, the child is very happy and thinks that he is doing the right thing. When children grow up, they will also lack the ability to read and write.

7. I think that's it for you. We can't count on you.

Parents will be disappointed with their children when they see that their children are always at the bottom of the class. After listening to this sentence, children will feel more useless and will only become less fond of learning.