Just because a child lies doesn't mean that the child is not good. Everyone has been lying more or less all his life. Why did they lie? Maybe the child is avoiding reprimand, and everyone wants to hear the message of praise. It is everyone's instinct to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. For growing children, it will be quite scary to hear the message of reprimand. Therefore, children will choose to lie and deceive their parents.
It is also possible that children's imagination is too rich, and children add their own imagination when explaining some problems or things. This kind of thing lies casually and doesn't even know it's lying. According to the experimental report, the sooner a child tells a lie, the smarter he is.
How should parents guide their children after they lie? The key is for parents to tell whether their children are lying. In fact, this is very easy to tell, because children are not mature in lying. If you really can't tell the difference, talk to your children more and listen to their voices. Be good friends with children. Discuss, ask the child's requirements and find out why the child lies. To sum up, you can't kill every lying child with a stick.
If the second situation lies because of imagination, then parents need to help their children distinguish between reality and fantasy. Parents tell their children what is responsibility and what is imagination in life. What usually happens and what can only happen in your mind. Gradually, children can separate responsibility from imagination.
To sum up, you can educate your child, such as not allowing him to watch TV next time he lies, or agreeing to a condition as long as he doesn't lie. In short, we must patiently persuade education, otherwise we will ignore it. Parents in the new era should educate their children in the new era and understand the psychology behind their lies. Find the root cause of the child's lying, and you can prescribe the right medicine.