Communication between people needs to be based on equality before we can talk about other things. A person who doesn't know how to respect others can't win their respect and true love at the same time.
In the process of educating children, teaching children to respect others is the most basic rule of courtesy and life.
The result of respect is to be sincerely accepted by others, eager to be loved, respected and worshipped, which is human nature. If you want to get it, you must learn to pay first, and the premise of getting respect is to have a humble heart first.
In the process of communication, people's attitudes towards others are often fed back to themselves. Before teaching children to respect others, we can let them care about animal life first.
In children's minds, they may not respect others' ideas. What is closely related to them may be the pets at home and their favorite toys. Children sometimes treat pets as toys because they are still young. Animals will scratch, even hit and throw. Animals don't express their pain, and often they can only bear it passively. Sometimes, subconscious counterattacks can even lead to injuries to children.
You can't have both pets and children. If a small animal grows up with children, it will not only cultivate their love and consideration for children, but more importantly, let children know the value of life.
A kind and caring person must have empathy for everything in the world. Every child is kind and caring when he first comes to this world. In the eyes of adults, cheating may be because they don't know how to express their love.
However, with the growth of age, if children are always indifferent and even take pleasure in abusing small animals, that is disrespect for life. Parents need to give correct guidance at an early stage, otherwise they may grow up indifferent to life, disrespectful to people, indifferent to feelings, unfriendly to parents and relatives, and even make some cruel moves.
If a person can treat animals sincerely, he will cherish people more. To teach children respect, you can start with patience and love for small animals.
Studies show that people who are cruel to animals in childhood are more likely to commit crimes in adulthood than those who love animals. Before the age of 6, a healthy personality is mainly formed. If children don't know how to give love in childhood, they may lose the ability to love.
In childhood, we should guide love and respect in time, let children know how to cherish life and respect others, so as not to form personality deviation. If parents see their children's "cruel" behavior towards small animals, they should stop it in time and tell them what to do.
Children sometimes make some excessive behaviors, which are actually not malicious, because they simply don't know that these behaviors will cause harm to their lives, but just want to observe how animals will react through their own behaviors. At this time, if parents can make correct guidance according to the child's behavior, the child will not be like this next time.
Guidance does not mean indiscriminate criticism, but criticism is likely to make children do more things next time, thus attracting the attention of parents. What parents need to do is to tell their children what kind of pain harmful behaviors will bring to small animals, so that children can learn to empathize and feel the same. When children can understand that what they do will make other lives uncomfortable, the seeds of their inner respect can break through the ground.
For children before the age of 6, the behavior of hurting small animals can be corrected with a little guidance from parents, because children at this time worship their parents very much. As long as you can communicate with your child patiently and gently and say it a few times more, you can improve and let your child return to the normal track.
First of all, let children know that animals are life, just like you and me, they will be hurt and sad. If you are beaten, you will want to avoid crying, and small animals will be afraid if they are caught and beaten.
If a child accidentally kills an animal, parents should never have the idea of "buying another one after death", which is a disrespect for life from the hearts of adults. Every small animal has a unique soul and is irreplaceable. They are not toys on the assembly line, and teaching by example is more important than teaching by example. If you can show your love for small animals from the details, children will naturally follow suit and be good to small animals.
As parents, of course, they want their children to be respectful, polite and educated in the future, so equality should be infiltrated into all aspects of life when communicating with their children. Whether we treat small animals equally or parents treat children equally, we should be equal. Parents should listen carefully to their children and help them express what they want to say but don't understand.