I think it's only superficial to look down on it. Tiger poison does not eat children, and children are worried for thousands of miles. I think sometimes children should be given some pressure when they reach a certain age, and they will be spoiled and spoiled.

Degang Guo once said that it is not good to spoil your child without educating him. When you grow up, someone in the society will educate him for you. You let him suffer what he deserves, and he will be a man in society. In fact, parents love their children, but they should also look down on him appropriately, put pressure on him and teach him to be a man. I wonder if my answer makes sense.

How can parents look down on their sons?

It may be that there is a big gap between parents' expectations of their children and their current abilities, which leads to parents' ruthlessness. So on the surface, it is an education for children. Mr Degang Guo began this depressing education when he was a child. "After I scold him, no one will scold him outside." This is what Degang Guo said to Guo Qilin.

Where there are parents who don't love their children, the way of education is different. The children accept you, so this biased understanding will appear.

I hope my answer is helpful to you.

Without contrast, there will be no harm, no sad past, and no inner pain today.

Looking down on is only the appearance, indicating that the heart has been deeply stung. But in the end, what parents don't love their children? There is a generation gap, a knot, and I don't understand. Or the result of a happy family finding a chance to explain these mutual indifference clearly.

How to speak?

Find a comfortable and quiet environment that can last for several hours without external interference. To have a heart-to-heart talk, it is best to start with an incident, analyze it slowly, and extend it to the relationship at home. Ask each other what they don't understand.

Of course, it will also involve some skills, such as asking more questions, speaking more, listening attentively and not interrupting.

I hope it works for you.